Forced into abortion

We have 3 children youngest being 10 months. Just this week found out we are nearly 6 weeks pregnant. At first I was shocked and knew we couldn't keep it. But now I want to and couldn't go through with an abortion but hubby says I have to. I can't stop crying :-((

I'm so sorry you are going through that. I'm always here to listen if you need to talk, pm me.

You Don't HAVE too.
It's your body and your choice to keep or abort the baby.

Oh man..that's a rough situation to be in.

Maybe the two of you can sit down and come up with a list of pros and cons?

I've never been in that situation, but I know if I were, it would be hard trying to figure out something. I hope you and your husband can work things out...

He can't force you to have an abortion. It is YOUR body. Good luck, whatever your choice may be.

It is your decision but be prepared to become a single mother of four if your husband really does not want another child. No one can force you to have an abortion, you can always say no at the clinic too. I wish you luck.

Im sorry honey <3 Could you do it on your own? Have you sat down and talked with him?

You don't have to do ANYTHING you don't want to.
It is YOUR body. Send me a pm if you need to talk.

Quoting Stressedmum:" We have 3 children youngest being 10 months. Just this week found out we are nearly 6 weeks pregnant. ... [snip!] ... couldn't keep it. But now I want to and couldn't go through with an abortion but hubby says I have to. I can't stop crying :-(("

Have you and your husband talked about adoption?
Whatever you end up deciding, good luck to you momma.

Nobody can force you to have an abortion. Married or not it's still your body and your choice. If you want to keep the baby then do it but be prepared for your husband to leave. I wish you lots of luck.

In the end its up to you, he cant make you get one.
But have you thought about adoption? or even an open adoption? If you really dont want to get an abortion but cant keep the baby, that might be a ood alternative. Id say weigh all your pros and cons first

I can't see how someone who loves you for better or worse would MAKE you do such a thing against your will. Don't do it if you feel this isnt what you want. If he can't understand that..maybe its time for a whole life change. Im sorry you are going thru this..best of luck. Hopefully you have family to fall back on for some support.

Quoting Ole' No Name:" You Don't HAVE too. It's your body and your choice to keep or abort the baby."

This

i was in the same boat with this one. i was scared and kept putting it off till we hit the 14 week mark. It was really hard. But now, we are expecting her any day and hes happy about it. He got over it. We moved past it but it was hard. Just try to remember how he feels, hes probably really scared.

He can't force you.