Quoting Tavi:" I would tell your husband. Only for the fact that if you don't and this guy says he did try to come ... [snip!] ... probably look bad. Tell your husband....and maybe just don't hang out with the guy unless you're in a bigger group..."Agreed. If your SO finds out from anyone but you it will look really bad and like you had something to hide.
Quoting Mommy2a Prince&Princess:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mj's Crazy Mama♥:</b>" Seriously? I would tell him. I've ... [snip!] ... I just don't want a fight. I know DH will go over there and kick his ass and I don't want to be the one who started that."
Quoting Mommy2a Prince&Princess:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Michael Westen:</b>" I didn't tell DH when his best friend kissed ... [snip!] ... be accused of something for leaving him there and I didn't want him to wake up and find me in his bed or on the couch sleeping."