re: What would you do?

Quoting Samilee:" Yeah, I just feel maybe he shouldn't have said anything to her at all...it don't bother me that he followed ... [snip!] ... he said that to her. What was the point of saying anything to her at all? Her being followed should have been enough, ya know?"

Did she say anything back? There is a likelyhood she didn't even see it to begin with. I get where you're coming from....but I do think you're taking it just slightly too personally   Just relax. He had a moment where he thought with the wrong head.

Quoting Jamie & Baby Aria (::" It would hurt my feelings but I'd try not to get too upset. Like someone else said, he doesn't know her. ... [snip!] ... movie starts I think are hot; SO knows that- he always harasses me during Twilight movies about me liking Taylor Lautner haha."

Oh yeah don't get me wrong, I don't care if he thinks other women are hot, I think other male celebs are hot. It's the fact that he said "hottest" . If he would have worded it as you're hot it wouldn't have bothered me near as bad.

Quoting misanthrope:" You're over reacting big time."

    


Like, waaaaay big time. DH knows I think Ryan Reynolds is hotter than him and he doesn't give a smurf about it.

Quoting *Berrrr:" Did she say anything back? There is a likelyhood she didn't even see it to begin with. I get where you're ... [snip!] ... I do think you're taking it just slightly too personally   Just relax. He had a moment where he thought with the wrong head."

I was too upset to even look and see if she said anything Yeah, believe me I'm trying to relax, I just can't get it off my mind. He gets off at 3 today so I'm hoping I'll be better by then. Talking about it with you ladies is helping at least  

<blockquote><b>Quoting Samilee:</b>" Yeah, I just feel maybe he shouldn't have said anything to her at all...it don't bother me that he followed ... [snip!] ... he said that to her. What was the point of saying anything to her at all? Her being followed should have been enough, ya know?"</blockquote>



It's just twitter though. I'm sure that model doesn't care and nothing will become of it. It was just a comment. For most people there is always someone they find hotter then their SO/DH. There are plenty of men I find hotter then my DH but it doesn't matter because I love him. DH has a serious thing for Emma Stone but I don't get bent out of shape about it. If he were to ever meet her and make that comment to her I'd laugh and make fun of him for it later. It's really not a big deal IMO.

Quoting Andi+Andy=Marley+1:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Samilee:</b>" Yeah, I just feel maybe he shouldn't have said ... [snip!] ... were to ever meet her and make that comment to her I'd laugh and make fun of him for it later. It's really not a big deal IMO."

Believe me I'm trying to see it that way, it's just hard! In all of our 10 years together he has never once said a woman was hotter than me....celeb or not...it just rubbed me the wrong way big time!

I would have been upset too. I mean, I am very hormonal for the time being but still...that is considered flirting & I don't flirt with other guys so of course I would be hurt if he was flirting with someone else. I probably would have tried not to get too emotional about it & just talk to him, but sometimes it's hard to hold back feelings.

Quoting coℓton's mama. «3:" I would have been upset too. I mean, I am very hormonal for the time being but still...that is considered ... [snip!] ... probably would have tried not to get too emotional about it & just talk to him, but sometimes it's hard to hold back feelings."

I kept my voice level until I said the words "you think she's the hottest on the planet" then I started bawling...

Quoting Samilee:" Ok, so my husband was trying to find a song that I've been looking for. He has a Twitter so he went and ... [snip!] ... why I was so upset!! My question, AM I overreacting? Would you all be this upset too or am I just freaking out over nothing?"

You know, I understand why you're hurt.. I really do

But I also know for a fact that even though my fiance finds me very attractive, there are women out there who are indeed, more attractive to him than I am. Especially given the fact that he likes hazel eyes and darker hair.. I'm lighter haired, and have blue eyes.. so no big deal..

Is there a reason why you looked at all his conversations instead of the one that interested you?

Quoting Tasha & Nika:" You know, I understand why you're hurt.. I really do But I also know for a fact that even though ... [snip!] ... blue eyes.. so no big deal.. Is there a reason why you looked at all his conversations instead of the one that interested you?"

I didn't look through anything actually, it was right below the question he asked. I would never snoop trust me. It was just right there.

Quoting Samilee:" Ok, so my husband was trying to find a song that I've been looking for. He has a Twitter so he went and ... [snip!] ... why I was so upset!! My question, AM I overreacting? Would you all be this upset too or am I just freaking out over nothing?"

I find it disrespectful to be honest. It's OK for him to find other women beautiful. God made so many beautiful people in the world.. it's hard NOT to notice sometimes! But for him to write her a comment like that seems disrespectful to you IMO. My husband would never call another woman "hot" in general or bother to comment that on their page.
But noticing another womans beauty is going to happen. It should happen in a appreciative, friendly way though.. NOT in a lustful way.