Quoting Tea Bag McGee:" It is not are choice to let go and pass on but those who love and care for us to let us go so we can pass on? just a thought i had while driving this morning."
Quoting Kimber-Lily:" Someone is smoking some whacky tabaccy."
Quoting Tea Bag McGee:" no i just think A LOT lol. i swear i think in my sleep. i was thinking about my best friend who passed ... [snip!] ... like this. and i got to thinking i really need to let him rest even in my thoughts.. but remember him.. then thought that. "I too had a friend pass away, in July. I can never imagine not thinking about her, ever. She was such a dear friend to me. I had my best-friend pass away when I was 8, she burned to death along with her 3yr old brother and mother in a house fire, to this day I still think about her and I'm almost 27
Quoting Andrea0510:" i get what your saying. That it's not the person who passed that is keeping them from resting at peace it's the loved ones who can't let go. interesting thing to think about!"
Quoting Tea Bag McGee:" yes this.. i have some crazy thoughts sometime but they have a point behind it.. lmao"
Quoting katxo:" I just don't think a mother who has lost babies during birth or after would see it that way but I understand why you think that way.."
Quoting Tea Bag McGee:" but to add to that thought.. to let go and not forget.. but to let the person rest. it is impossible ... [snip!] ... about those who cant let go at all.. like they just cant. remember someone and letting them rest is two different things. "It's a hard subject since death can vary so many ways age,relation or how they passed. but i would think of it as coming to terms with knowing they are in a better place and letting the worry go. although your going to always miss the person you have lost.