re: Alil tmi but not really.....vaginas.

Quoting Love what it is..:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kelly&Coralie:</b>" you'll know. Try just moving different ... [snip!] ... off?? I mean I can wait as long as possible but I'm scared next time were alone something could happen...then it just suck.  "

I mean that there is no reason to not have sex.

I think you're getting a little worked up over nothing.

Quoting Love what it is..:" <blockquote><b>Quoting *Cade*Mak*Col*:</b>" I was scared to have sex after my first ... [snip!] ... I mean sex was great when I was having it but like he didn't feel as big after LO .. And plus this is a different guy."

it takes time for things to go back to the way they were. And girl, just because you really really like someone, doesn't mean you need to have sex with them. You are young. Don't be that girl that gets pregnant again, right away, with another guy. There is no chance for your baby's father to smarten up? I would wait. Sex shouldn't be the basis of a relationship. Save it for " the one." focus on your baby, not boys.

<blockquote><b>Quoting *Cade*Mak*Col*:</b>" it takes time for things to go back to the way they were. And girl, just because you really really like ... [snip!] ... smarten up? I would wait. Sex shouldn't be the basis of a relationship. Save it for " the one." focus on your baby, not boys."</blockquote>




My baby is like my main priority. But I mean everyone knows you can't literally focus on your baby every second of the day. And I know we don't have to have sex but I'm talking "incase" and I'm getting a BC appt cause of this fact.. And I know all the safe sex stuff lol

I didn't even see how young OP is

Yeah. no sex. Sex= babies and you don't want another one right now. Or for the next 5 years.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kelly&Coralie:</b>" I didn't even see how young OP is Yeah. no sex. Sex= babies and you don't want another one right now. Or for the next 5 years."</blockquote>




I know sex leads to babies. But my baby wasn't a accident (hate to say that but hell can't change what it is) so I know how to keep baby's from happening.
I was thinking about getting on the depo shot sometime this week. But I'm not sure cause I heard ALOT of bad things about it

I find sex much more pleasurable, I don't really know why, other than when I had LO I was scared I was gonna be loose, and did kegels all day long. Cooking dinner, watching TV, any time I realized I was just standing/sitting I'd do them. If I don't have sex like every 4 days it takes a little bit to get it in and then a few strokes to stretch it back out during sex.


Work them kegels girl!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jackie Burkhart ♡:</b>" I find sex much more pleasurable, I don't really know why, other than when I had LO I was scared I was ... [snip!] ... 4 days it takes a little bit to get it in and then a few strokes to stretch it back out during sex. Work them kegels girl!"</blockquote>




Idk how! Lol I try but I can't do it. I can't even hold my pee. Before LO I could but now I can't find the muscle or something.

Quoting Love what it is..:" <blockquote><b>Quoting *Cade*Mak*Col*:</b>" it takes time for things to go back to ... [snip!] ... have to have sex but I'm talking "incase" and I'm getting a BC appt cause of this fact.. And I know all the safe sex stuff lol"

You can get pregnant even with birth control. Seriously, wait for someone you want to spend your life with. You can't know that already.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Love what it is..:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jackie Burkhart ♡:</b>" I find sex much more pleasurable, ... [snip!] ... Idk how! Lol I try but I can't do it. I can't even hold my pee. Before LO I could but now I can't find the muscle or something."</blockquote>




Next time you go pee try to just stop the stream. Its hard to child it if you've never done it, it gets easier you have to practice. I kinda pulsate mine really fast and then hold it, its fancy to do during sex too lol. ;)

Quoting Love what it is..:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kelly&Coralie:</b>" Listen, if a guy finishes and says "I ... [snip!] ... wait to have sex.. Like months... Or forever.. Ugh this sucks! And how do you know if your doing it right if your not peeing"

Are you kidding me? You are actually worried a guy might leave because your pussy isn't tight enough for him? Any guy like that is a world class smurfing douchebag. Plus contrary to popular belief your vagina snaps back into place after birth.

Quoting MysticWitchKat:" Are you kidding me? You are actually worried a guy might leave because your pussy isn't tight enough ... [snip!] ... like that is a world class smurfing douchebag. Plus contrary to popular belief your vagina snaps back into place after birth."

This. 100%

If a guy complains about the tightness or leaves over it, he is a smurfhead and a douchenozzle. Scum of the earth.

I'd rather be alone than with a guy who bitches about vaginal tightness

Quoting Kelly&Coralie:" This. 100% If a guy complains about the tightness or leaves over it, he is a smurfhead and a douchenozzle. ... [snip!] ... is a smurfhead and a douchenozzle. Scum of the earth. I'd rather be alone than with a guy who bitches about vaginal tightness"

Guy who said that to me I would tell him maybe if his penis was not so small he would be okay :X.

Quoting MysticWitchKat:" Guy who said that to me I would tell him maybe if his penis was not so small he would be okay :X."

And that is more likely the case.

Quoting Kelly&Coralie:" And that is more likely the case."

=X

But seriously chica, he will be too busy pounding away enjoying the sex to even notice if that is the case *which it isn't*.