Posting for a friend......HELP HELP

Ok So she is looking for advice......

When she was a Junior in highschool, She met this really sweet guy through a mutual friend. They became friends then their senior year they began dating. its went well for about three years. She remained a virgin because she wanted to wait till marriage an he respected that. Then in the 2nd year if their relationship(please forgive my spelling..lol) His mother get into their busy by calling her names like "spoiled bitch
(She stilled lived with her parents who didnt spoil her bc she didnt have to work) but the fight began to escalte he never had time for because he was always working. She loved him and wanted a family(but he didnt want that at the time) but she wasnt doing it alone so she split in year. now almost 4 years later she sees him at wal-mart and they were talk and what not an want to became friends again but now a year later he wants to date her again. She doesnt know what to do. Its like he wants to setlle down and he said he will marry her and give her kids now but she dont know if she wants to come back. or if she even should? She is single, NOT a virgin anymore,has a FWB, She also works and gos to school full time.


ANY ADVICE FOR HER?

i have made that mistake more than once, there is a reason they split, she should keep it that way

Take things very slow.

She split because there was no time for her, SHe wanted a family and he didnt. and his mother is a nosy bitch

Now he does want a family and she has a friend with a little benefit but she still wants a baby

I would tell her to give him another chance. SO and I have a story similar to that, where we dated for a while, split then a couple of years later got together...and we've been together this time around for a little over 2 years and have a beautiful DS. Sometimes, at certain points in our life, we just aren't ready for what someone else is offering us...then a few years later if it can work out, it's more beautiful than you can image.

I'm a big believer in second chances though. If they ended on good terms and not something that would cause trust issues this time around, I say go for it! I did and I couldn't be happier

Quoting Mj's Crazy Mama♥:" I would tell her to give him another chance. SO and I have a story similar to that, where we dated for ... [snip!] ... good terms and not something that would cause trust issues this time around, I say go for it! I did and I couldn't be happier"

They did end good terms

Eh sounds a bit creepy if you ask me....5 years later out of the blue "hey baby lets get married k thx bai"

Quoting MysticWitchKat:" Eh sounds a bit creepy if you ask me....5 years later out of the blue "hey baby lets get married k thx bai" "

My thought exactly...

Who says that? Seems like they both would just be in it to produce a spawn and/or liking the idea of the pocket fenced house and marriage...sound like they both need to enjoy themselves as it is and not rush into everything...how weird.