Quoting j0des(+2):" Pssst. Mine is getting the silent treatment and sleeping on the couch ;) Extra snuggles with the kids! Score! Hmmmpf.. to deal or not deal with it tomorrow.."
Quoting Mother of Broccoli.:" I'm sorry he's such a downer. I don't know what I'd end up doing in that situation. Have you told him that you don't feel like things are really working? "
Quoting KNZ.:" Oh yeah, that was today. (well, the most recent conversation about it) His response, "So, what..you ... [snip!] ... to communicate with. I told him if things don't take a change for the better, we'll be staying at my parents for a bit."
Quoting Mother of Broccoli.:" Haha what does that mean?? Men are so dumb sometimes Maybe leaving for a few days will make him think about how you see things. Have you ever left him alone with the kids?"
Quoting KNZ.:" Seriously. I really just looked at him, dumbfounded haha. He's been alone with the kids once. I think. ... [snip!] ... were moving so my pregnant ass could go to the old house and move stuff. he wound up bitching about it and i took them with me."
Quoting Mother of Broccoli.:" What a piece of work I'd be scared to leave them alone with him, but I'd try it just to try and get ... [snip!] ... happens if you get put on strict bedrest? Or when your recovering from giving birth again? He's gonna need to step up then."
Quoting pilot Jess:" <blockquote><b>Quoting KNZ.:</b>" Doesn't that reasoning just like, blow your mind? ... [snip!] ... I do the laundry, dishes, cook (sometimes), bake, care for and dote on the kids. Grrr. People like your dh piss me off, lol."
Quoting Layla's Momma ♥:" Didn't he want you guys to move in with him? I mean what did he think his life would be like once you ... [snip!] ... The guy needs to grow up now or he's gonna end up being alone forever! Not many women would put up with that BS. Good luck!"
Quoting KNZ.:" Ugh that's really where my head has been at lately, but it's really just not realistic. My mom came ... [snip!] ... of it) and she was telling me that i need to just let some things go with him, but like...i DO...and that's been the problem."my step mom told me to do whatever to stay with my husband and keep the family together for our kids if we ever think about going our separate ways.. I was like what do you mean she's like well I have dealt with all of your dads cheating and verbal abuse for the sake of the kids.. yeah no thanks and she doesn't realize that thats the very reason my brother and sister hate living at home and can't wait until they are 18 to get the smurf out..