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Follow your heart. You never know how much this guy could mean to you at some point down the road.

If you really like him, I would give it a chance. How far away are you moving?

Quoting AngelGabriel'sMama:" Follow your heart. You never know how much this guy could mean to you at some point down the road."

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Quoting £egendary £ex:" If you really like him, I would give it a chance. How far away are you moving?"

300 miles. So, I mean, a doable drive in one day, but sort of smurffy far away.

Quoting AngelGabriel'sMama:" Follow your heart. You never know how much this guy could mean to you at some point down the road."

  

Quoting The Goddamn Batman:" I know, but I also don't want to give up my future plans for a guy. So what if I date him and he's ... [snip!] ... would resent each other. But then what if he IS super awesome and we're way happy together and we end married for 50+ years?"

It may just be me, but that possibility would make me give him a shot.  

Never hurts to go for it. He knows where you stand, and what happens from there is what is meant to happen. Don't sit there and scare yourself off too much, just have fun... and go with it. You never know if this guy is meant to be with you or not. But you cannot stop yourself from an experience from someone that you actually LIKE.  

After my divorce, i was dead serious about remaining single forever. I scoffed at love. Thought it was for suckers.


Guess who is remarried with another child?  


Don't try to predict what you will want later, because you never know what life will throw at you to change how you look at life. If you like him, give it a try. Don't be dishonest, but keep your heart open if you like him  

Quoting The Goddamn Batman:" I know, and I'm trying to be optimistic, but the last guy I dated was totally awesome and we got married ... [snip!] ... to be together for 50+ years and then he smurfed me over, so I'm sort of hesitant to be hopeful here. UGH. Dating is HARD."

That's understandable, but being hesitant could make you miss out on the real deal. He's not your ex, so try to start over with a clean slate. Good luck mama!

Quoting The Goddamn Batman:" 300 miles. So, I mean, a doable drive in one day, but sort of smurffy far away."

That's really not to bad actually  . And it's not exact you would resent each other either. Couples make sacrifices where they really learn to care about each other.