re: circumcision

Thanks ladies, it just sucks they make me feel like im a bad mother, and I'm not i know I'm not. My first son had issues for two years from being circumcised. I feel like I'm doing the right thing. Im sure they will give me smurf for breastfeeding for the first two years too, just like they give me smurf for choosing to cloth diaper saying they won't touch them that they will buy disposable for at there house... Irritating!

You will get smurf either way. We left our son intact DH fam was happy mine not so much but not their kid not thier problem

Quoting *frisky2times*:" Thanks ladies, it just sucks they make me feel like im a bad mother, and I'm not i know I'm not. My first ... [snip!] ... smurf for choosing to cloth diaper saying they won't touch them that they will buy disposable for at there house... Irritating!"

Meh, they wanna waste their money like that, let em. They sound stupid as HELL.

I'm already getting smurf for not wanting to circumsize and my son isn't even born yet. People need to mind their own business. You are not a bad mother at all...I am happy you did your research and are doing whats best for your son.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Chelsea Dawns Mama:</b>" Meh, they wanna waste their money like that, let em. They sound stupid as HELL."</blockquote>

Seriously! Its like they ask just to pry into what I'm doing to give there opinion which has turned into bashing.

Quoting *frisky2times*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Chelsea Dawns Mama:</b>" Meh, they wanna waste their money ... [snip!] ... Seriously! Its like they ask just to pry into what I'm doing to give there opinion which has turned into bashing."

I'd stop telling them anything.

Its your decision. I am not getting my son either. People say its wrong to not get them circumcised but I think it is much safer. I am to the point where if someone doesn't like the way I plan to raise my child, I tell them to mind their own damn business. I am not being nice about it anymore. It is my child I plan to do what I believe is best. Not to mention I have done so much research on everything.