Quoting Ꭶwan♥Nemö:" lol I can't. I just can't. My emotions are attached to my sex, so I dont know how and nor do I want to without SOME type of commitment."

For me, even though quite a few of mine I've only had sex with once or twice, there has to be some kind of connection to have sex. I don't just jump in bed with anyone.

Quoting Kelly&Coralie:" Oh c'mon.. what is the magic nasty number? Nobody here will harass you for it (I hope) Is it 3? 10? 30?"

Okay personally I think having sex with more than 5 ppl is a bit much. I wouldnt consider the person a slut by any means, but more than 5 just seems a bit much to me lol. But obviously not to most of society.

I think numbers don't matter honestly, but I do think a woman is slutty for having sex with a person they know is taken and really couldn't careless. Otherwise, I reserve judgement.

Quoting **Blessed Insanity **:" Okay personally I think having sex with more than 5 ppl is a bit much. I wouldnt consider the person ... [snip!] ... consider the person a slut by any means, but more than 5 just seems a bit much to me lol. But obviously not to most of society."

Actually, I know quite a few people who share your opinion. The number they give out is usually between 5 and 10

and it's a GOOD thing. Don't ever be ashamed of your opinions or beliefs

4 for me lol

Well, I USED to think a woman was a slut based on how many people she'd slept with, but I know better now- it's none of my business how many guys/girls a woman sleeps with. I don't regret my failed relationships- because I have a great guy now, and everything is where I think it should be. If it weren't for my failures, I wouldn't have a guy who is emotionally AND sexually compatible with me. Sure it bothers me that I have been with 4 guys physically because it goes against my personal ideals...but whatever, smurf happens. Life goes on.

But I don't really count one of the partners- I only slept with him once, I was 16, depressed and he pressured me into it- So I only really count 3 partners...that other guy was a fluke...and it lasted like 10 seconds hahaha  

<blockquote><b>Quoting **Blessed Insanity **:</b>" Okay personally I think having sex with more than 5 ppl is a bit much. I wouldnt consider the person ... [snip!] ... consider the person a slut by any means, but more than 5 just seems a bit much to me lol. But obviously not to most of society."</blockquote>



Don't be concerned or ashamed about your opinion.

Quoting Spencer Pratt:" Your high school teacher?   Like while you were still in highschool? "

Yeeeppp. creepy now that I look back. He was only 23-but still... We made out one afternoon when I stayed late to take a test...one thing led to another....

Quoting four winds:" Yeeeppp. creepy now that I look back. He was only 23-but still... We made out one afternoon when I stayed late to take a test...one thing led to another...."

I'm curious how does that even start? Lol

Oh I am not ashamed of my opinion at all. I just didnt want to start any drama cause I know how some women can be who feel that having many partners in life is fine. Which sure for them i suppose it is, I just hope my kids feel differently and have more of my view on sex and realationships.

<blockquote><b>Quoting **Blessed Insanity **:</b>" Oh I am not ashamed of my opinion at all. I just didnt want to start any drama cause I know how some ... [snip!] ... Which sure for them i suppose it is, I just hope my kids feel differently and have more of my view on sex and realationships."</blockquote>


Eh...life happens. People get divorced, spouses die, relationships crumble. You can have multiple partners but still value sex in relationships only.

<blockquote><b>Quoting **Blessed Insanity **:</b>" Oh I am not ashamed of my opinion at all. I just didnt want to start any drama cause I know how some ... [snip!] ... Which sure for them i suppose it is, I just hope my kids feel differently and have more of my view on sex and realationships."</blockquote>




You don't have to explain your opinion. At all.

One & in my opinion a girl is only a slut if she smurfs every guy she meets or almost every guy she meets & announces it publicly and proudly?

Quoting Back to Noob Status:" <blockquote><b>Quoting **Blessed Insanity **:</b>" Oh I am not ashamed of my opinion ... [snip!] ... get divorced, spouses die, relationships crumble. You can have multiple partners but still value sex in relationships only."

Hence why I said more than 5 lol. Cause I realize that things do happen, that ppl get divorced, or spouses die. But more than 5 partners is a bit much in my opinion.

Quoting **Blessed Insanity **:" Oh I am not ashamed of my opinion at all. I just didnt want to start any drama cause I know how some ... [snip!] ... Which sure for them i suppose it is, I just hope my kids feel differently and have more of my view on sex and realationships."

That's how my parents were. They started dating at 14 and 16 and have been together ever since. They are each others' only. They raised me to believe the same. I had only been with 2 people when I met my daughter's dad. I was with him for 7 years. Then we went through an awful divorce and I went a bit crazy for a while. I can't say I regret it. But I definitely won't do it again. I am also bipolar as someone else said and I think that was all part of a manic stage.

My number is the last option on that poll lol. I don't consider myself a slut since I've had sex with one person in the last 3 years but 5 years ago? Heck yes.
As for other people, I really can't pass judgment since I have no room to talk lol. But unless I know you(or if we're on BG of course  ) I really don't need to know your sexual history.