i didn't loose my virginity until AFTER i graduated high school   i feel pathetic lol

Quoting Kelly&Coralie:" For the people who picked one, how do you do it? Seriously, by the time I graduated high school, I was around #20 (my actual number remains a mystery to me)"

you just don't have sex. i easily could have done it, but i didn't choose to. i didn't have sex at all until i was 18.

Quoting Kelly&Coralie:" For the people who picked one, how do you do it? Seriously, by the time I graduated high school, I was around #20 (my actual number remains a mystery to me)"

I met my SO when I was 16, lost my virginity to him and been in a committed relationship since then. I am 22.

16. 8 girls and 8 guys.

And no. I don't think the amount makes you a slut. Honestly I don't really call people sluts. Some people like sex, why give them smurf for it.

8 men, 1 woman.


ETA: I don't think that the number matters at all - it's more of how you conduct yourself. I think knowingly helping someone cheat or cheating yourself is pretty slutty, a few other things like that come to mind, but just being promiscuous doesn't make you a slut.

Quoting Kelly&Coralie:" For the people who picked one, how do you do it? Seriously, by the time I graduated high school, I was around #20 (my actual number remains a mystery to me)"

I think of sex differently than most. To me it is a very emotional, intimate act and I could never engage in any sexual activity with someone that I wasn't in love with. I have been in love twice in my life, and the first time I was a teenager and we both wanted to wait until marriage to have sex. We broke up, and then a few years later, I met my current s/o, who is the only person I've slept with.

Quoting MommyToWesley:" *wondering if the 36+ people are joking* I have slept with (penetration) 4 (including my husband), but ... [snip!] ... with a penis (or vagina- whatever floats your boat)- those are acts that would make me consider a person to be a "slut"."

Why joke?

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I'm wondering the same! I was at 5 at the end of high school and had plenty more after

Quoting C's Mommy ♥:" i didn't loose my virginity until AFTER i graduated high school   i feel pathetic lol"

Why pathetic? I did too. I don't regret it.

Quoting Carla DiFiore:" Honest it doesnt matter to me what other people do and how many people they have sex with. If they want run risk of getting stds then more power to them. "

I only care how many people they have slept with if it is a boyfriend because if it's a lot I want a little piece of paper saying there not going to give me a present I never wanted and can't return.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kelly&Coralie:</b>" For the people who picked one, how do you do it? Seriously, by the time I graduated high school, I was around #20 (my actual number remains a mystery to me)"</blockquote>




Sex doesn't interest me. I didn't have consensual sex until I was 20. Had sex 2 times and got pregnant with Lucy. Haven't had sex in 2 years

<blockquote><b>Quoting C's Mommy ♥:</b>" i didn't loose my virginity until AFTER i graduated high school   i feel pathetic lol"</blockquote>




I wish I would've waited that long

<blockquote><b>Quoting C's Mommy ♥:</b>" i didn't loose my virginity until AFTER i graduated high school   i feel pathetic lol"</blockquote>




Not pathetic I didn't either

in total 20 something guys (i would have to sit here and count up exactly but its like 23) and 4 girls. about 3/4th were some kind of relationship and the other fourth were friends with benefits like things (i dont think i have ever only done it once with them it was a continuous thing) i dont consider any amount to be slutty. im not judgemental about how many people someone sleeps with anymore. i have grown up and realized that its not my place.

Quoting Kelly&Coralie:" For the people who picked one, how do you do it? Seriously, by the time I graduated high school, I was around #20 (my actual number remains a mystery to me)"

Idk "how" but I met DH at 14 and I just fell in love with him and we have been together ever since, going on 8 1/2 yrs and 3 kids and our relationship is better now, more loving and mature than when we first met. In ALL those years we haven't ever split up once   lol, I don't know how I made it this far but he is a blessing! Its just simple, good ole fashion true love that you hardly see anymore.