Quoting Supafly★:" Well that's why I said in my other post that if she is under the impression that he is single, she's ... [snip!] ... to do with it. And mental state......it really depends I guess. Most people know that cheating/helping someone cheat is wrong. "

True but sometimes the person is very broken emotionally as well. And they take any level of affection they get. Don't get me wrong i'm not saying there are people out there who just don't give a smurf. But a lot of factors also can come into play.

Quoting MysticWitchKat:" True but sometimes the person is very broken emotionally as well. And they take any level of affection ... [snip!] ... me wrong i'm not saying there are people out there who just don't give a smurf. But a lot of factors also can come into play."

I can agree with that. I'm talking more about the girls that just don't give a smurf because they know it's wrong, but their feelings/needs are more important than anyone else's.

<blockquote><b>Quoting MysticWitchKat:</b>" Morals are subjective to each individual however. And often people who smurf someone else's wife/husband ... [snip!] ... get away scot free, yet the woman is a slut? Seem's a bit backwards to label the women, but not the person most guilty :-P."</blockquote>




 

<blockquote><b>Quoting MysticWitchKat:</b>" True but sometimes the person is very broken emotionally as well. And they take any level of affection ... [snip!] ... me wrong i'm not saying there are people out there who just don't give a smurf. But a lot of factors also can come into play."</blockquote>




This.

Quoting four winds:" No one should EVER call a woman a slut. Especially another woman. I see it as as incredibly degrading ... [snip!] ... Being open with your sex life, sleeping with many men/women, and not being embarrassed by that does NOT make you a "slut"."

Agreed.

Quoting Supafly★:" Some woman ARE sluts, though. If you're going to sleep with my husband, my best friend's husband, and ... [snip!] ... to have something nice to say to you. As for those who are single and sleep with 100 single men, they are not sluts to me. "

No, that doesn't make her a slut. That makes her a shady person, but that doesn't mean you get to label her a slut for that. Sleeping with someone who is taken 1) It takes two to tango, and 2) calling her a slut is a copout when really you should be calling it what it is and just saying she's a dishonest and crappy person.

What about those women who sleep with a man who is married but separated?

Quoting Tarynosaurus Rex:" No, that doesn't make her a slut. That makes her a shady person, but that doesn't mean you get to label ... [snip!] ... her a slut is a copout when really you should be calling it what it is and just saying she's a dishonest and crappy person."

I'm not explaining to every single person who decides to join after 13 pages. Go back and read my responses to everyone who said the same exact thing as this.

Quoting HopingforaMiracle:" What about those women who sleep with a man who is married but separated?"

As long as he has the green light to hook up with other girls, why not?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Supafly★:</b>" As long as he has the green light to hook up with other girls, why not? "</blockquote>




I was curious thanks for answering!

Quoting HopingforaMiracle:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Supafly★:</b>" As long as he has the green light to hook up with other girls, why not? "</blockquote> I was curious thanks for answering!"

No problem. The reason why I have such distaste for girls(and guys, of course) willing to cheat or be with someone already married or in a relationship is because I see how much it hurts the other person. I've never been cheated on but I cheated on DH a couple months into our relationship and it hurt him so bad. I would never want to hurt someone so bad like that again and can't see why people think it's okay to blatantly ignore another person's feelings.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Supafly★:</b>" No problem. The reason why I have such distaste for girls(and guys, of course) willing to cheat or ... [snip!] ... to hurt someone so bad like that again and can't see why people think it's okay to blatantly ignore another person's feelings. "</blockquote>


Yea it makes sense

Quoting Supafly★:" I'm not explaining to every single person who decides to join after 13 pages. Go back and read my responses to everyone who said the same exact thing as this. "

I read every single reply of yours and you still have made no sense on this.

Quoting Tarynosaurus Rex:" I read every single reply of yours and you still have made no sense on this."

It makes perfect sense. You just don't agree with me. And you think she's shady and crappy but not a slut? What is a slut to you then?

Quoting Supafly★:" It makes perfect sense. You just don't agree with me. And you think she's shady and crappy but not a slut? What is a slut to you then? "

Nothing, taryn and I have the same mind on the concept of slut shaming.