Quoting Lillybutt's momma:" You need to have his bedtime at a specific time and naps as one as well. Until you are more consitent ... [snip!] ... no matter the circumstance. ETA: Is you don't have a structured schedule or routine the issue is not going to be resolved. "
Clearly, that's the point. You're obviously not seeing what I was asking. HOW to get it more set. And my daughter did fine without a 'structured' schedule for the rest of the day. Infants change too much to have their entire day planned out.