re: Baby gender......now Im freaking out O_o

Quoting Rabbit™ {24wks}:" Right? Haha. My brother has two girls and a boy. Lucky smurfer  "

hahaha yes very lucky....lol looks like we might have to go for no 4 lol

<blockquote><b>Quoting *Vani*:</b>" i wasnt going on my friends symptoms.....we were comparing, since she was just like me with my boys ... [snip!] ... they know im very opinionated and I dont mind saying how I feel.... im not an ass hole, but if you want me to be I will  "</blockquote>




No where did I said that makes you less of a person. Dont twist my words.

Quoting *Vani*:" i wasnt going on my friends symptoms.....we were comparing, since she was just like me with my boys ... [snip!] ... they know im very opinionated and I dont mind saying how I feel.... im not an ass hole, but if you want me to be I will  "

I still read some of the old drama threads for smurfs and giggles  

Quoting ~*VINTAGE LOVE*~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting VAR's Mommy:</b>" you sound stupid as smurf. how are you going ... [snip!] ... Is called having sn opinion and who started with the name calling. If you want respect you give respect."

don't come at someone with some religious bullsmurf and then turn around and be the exact opposite of what you preach and equivilant to what you are accusing her of.

Quoting ~*VINTAGE LOVE*~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting *Vani*:</b>" Thank you lol..... like my friend, her husband ... [snip!] ... know how possible it will be to have a 4th."</blockquote> Who said you cant do all that and more with a little girl?"

i dont know, maybe because his first wants nothing to do with MMA and sports...she rather draw and act.......

anyways if anyone is a dumbass its you.........who are you to judge anyone or question anything?

Quoting *Vani*:" hahaha yes very lucky....lol looks like we might have to go for no 4 lol"

We're on the fence. I wanted to get my tubes tied and when I told DH about getting cold feet he talked about us having another one  

Quoting ~*VINTAGE LOVE*~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting VAR's Mommy:</b>" you sound stupid as smurf. how are you going ... [snip!] ... Is called having sn opinion and who started with the name calling. If you want respect you give respect."

you did by calling me stupid and a jackass  

<blockquote><b>Quoting *Vani*:</b>" i dont know, maybe because his first wants nothing to do with MMA and sports...she rather draw and act....... ... [snip!] ... rather draw and act....... anyways if anyone is a dumbass its you.........who are you to judge anyone or question anything?"</blockquote>




Judging not at all just an opinion and being realistic. If that makes me a dumbass then so be it. Idgaf.

<blockquote><b>Quoting VAR's Mommy:</b>" don't come at someone with some religious bullsmurf and then turn around and be the exact opposite of what you preach and equivilant to what you are accusing her of."</blockquote>




What the hell I still think is stupid. I never said it wasnt. You are putting to much thought into my words. Lol

Quoting ~*VINTAGE LOVE*~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting *Vani*:</b>" i dont know, maybe because his first wants nothing ... [snip!] ... Judging not at all just an opinion and being realistic. If that makes me a dumbass then so be it. Idgaf."

ok then GTFO.....I dont want your opinion......

Quoting Rabbit™ {24wks}:" I wouldn't sweat it yet. Nub theory said boy but this one's a girl. I had a feeling it was another girl too. Nub theory isn't 100% so there's still hope."

you give me hope!!! lol....it sucks, it seems to be on my mind all the time. I was SURE my bff was going to have a boy.....everyone was....and it was a shocker.....but I still have some hope left....it was just my 13 week scan, but just in case it gave me something to be prepared for just if it is a boy.......NOT THAT I WILL LOVE MY CHILD ANY LESS ---->To the idiots who want to start crap   

<blockquote><b>Quoting *Vani*:</b>" ok then GTFO.....I dont want your opinion......"</blockquote>




Unfortunally this is a public forum and I can leave when I want. Thanks lol.

Quoting ~*VINTAGE LOVE*~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting VAR's Mommy:</b>" don't come at someone with some religious ... [snip!] ... What the hell I still think is stupid. I never said it wasnt. You are putting to much thought into my words. Lol"

not really.

<blockquote><b>Quoting *Vani*:</b>" you give me hope!!! lol....it sucks, it seems to be on my mind all the time. I was SURE my bff was going ... [snip!] ... just if it is a boy.......NOT THAT I WILL LOVE MY CHILD ANY LESS ---->To the idiots who want to start crap   "</blockquote>




lmao

What is wrong with hoping for a certain gender? And what is wrong with speculating about symptoms and what they could mean? She never once implied she wasn't going to be happy about having a healthy baby or love a boy any less. Geeze, someone needs to chill. There is nothing wrong AT ALL with wanting a girl and being disappointed if you don't get one or the other way around. I am very lucky I have both and would likely still be trying if I didn't. Disappointment doesn't mean devastated.