Quoting iLL-Legal Alien:" I think you're having deeper issues than a movie being the only thing he's doing for your anniversary. ... [snip!] ... going to the movies with him. Have you guys thought about counseling? Have you told him that you're feeling unappreciated?"

Agree, i think its deeper then just yall going to the movies, i think your feeling a bit unappreciated by the way he's treating you after so much that you do and i thnk you should i know exactly how you feel...the comment of better to be out then home hurts my DH told me this the other night when we were fighting and i started to cry cus i've tried so hard to make everything good at home, sometimes men go threw there own pms and i think thats whats going on with your SO.. I would say to just go to the movies and try to have the best night as you can. but at the same time if its something thats really bothering you let him know now cus you dont want it to be something that comes later in a different argument.

I agree with the others who think you and SO are having deeper issues. The fact that you are very pregnant and he just leaves you home with the kids and doesn't consider how you are feeling or the fact that you should be resting sounds like you are starting to resent him. You need to have an open communication about everything - even if you think it's going to start a fight because rather you get it out in the open now rather than letting it build up into something further later on. You need to work on a healthy and open relationship now before this next baby arrives. My DH and I talk about everything - even if it starts a fight, we take some space and readdress the issue when we have both calmed down. I do a lot of the planning myself as well. DH knows me very well though so he knows what I want or don't like. Also, would it hurt to suggest something else? Will he take offense to that? I mean, it's your anniversary too so why shouldn't you have some say. It just sounds like you are stepping on thin ice around him never telling him how he feels and always keeping him happy. You deserve to feel appreciated. When DH forgets to say thank you, I simply remind him in a silly way so that it doesn't come off rude. My DH is handicapped and needs a lot of extra help that no man wants to have but thru that all he has really learned how much he appreciates me. DH would do everything for me if he were capable, so don't let your SO take you for granted. You deserve to be happy but it all starts with open communication. Don't be a door mat... if something is bothering you, tell him.

Quoting Pirate Hooker {BAMW}:" Our anniversary is Halloween. So we never get to do anything on our anniversary. It's been 5 years this ... [snip!] ... ride on the bike. I also stay home all day, and cook and clean and do laundry. I don't expect more from him than 'just a movie'"

at least he has a job

It sounds like your emotions are still wrecked from the night before, and your tired and still stressed and so is he. Don't do anything drastic until both of ya'll just calm down, and have time to let the emotions and hormones settle. Sorry you're having a bad anniversary, hopefully it'll get better!