What would you do?

....if you caught your husband sexting another girl and then trying to make it better by acting like your the greatest thing in the world? Im so close to leaving his butt.

I think he's just sorry he got caught  

He's trying to treat it like its not a big deal, when it really is. I think you need to make it clear to him that he is in deep and it's not a joke.

<blockquote><b>Quoting m o m ♥:</b>" I think he's just sorry he got caught  "</blockquote>




This! I'd be livid if my DH did that.

I'd kick him in the balls and then have a serious talk and ask him why've felt the need to sext another woman

we would be having a serious talk and all trust would be gone for a long time.

What would I do?

I'd leave, or kick him out. No questions asked.

I am livid. Already talked to him about it. I told him I deserve an apology. But you know how men are when your yelling at them. They shut down. I'm haven't made up my mind on what to do but I know that I have to stay to try to work on it because if our marriage does fail at least I know I tried everything to make it work. I'm just livid and my trust is gone.

Quoting Nikki Medina:" I am livid. Already talked to him about it. I told him I deserve an apology. But you know how men are ... [snip!] ... it because if our marriage does fail at least I know I tried everything to make it work. I'm just livid and my trust is gone."

Right, so try talking to him instead of yelling. Find out everything you can about the situation.

So many people are so quick to jump ship on life long commitments they made. I'm glad you want to try all you can to keep it together.

Quoting JiLLiAN.:" Right, so try talking to him instead of yelling. Find out everything you can about the situation. ... [snip!] ... people are so quick to jump ship on life long commitments they made. I'm glad you want to try all you can to keep it together."

If you cannot trust someone, how can you love them? I believe that happiness and respecting your partner is more important than (already broken) vows.

Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" If you cannot trust someone, how can you love them? I believe that happiness and respecting your partner is more important than (already broken) vows. "

Work to rebuild trust. Counseling, more time together if possible, finding out WHY he did it, how long it's been going on, don't just be like, okay you did this, we're done.

<blockquote><b>Quoting JiLLiAN.:</b>" Work to rebuild trust. Counseling, more time together if possible, finding out WHY he did it, how long it's been going on, don't just be like, okay you did this, we're done."</blockquote>




Couldn't agree more. More of the than not cheating (or cheating-esque activities) are just a symptom of other problems. Talk to him, I understand wanting to yell, but that obviously got you nowhere. Try to have a calm rational productive conversation about it.

Quoting MommaSav2:" <blockquote><b>Quoting JiLLiAN.:</b>" Work to rebuild trust. Counseling, more time ... [snip!] ... I understand wanting to yell, but that obviously got you nowhere. Try to have a calm rational productive conversation about it."

AND while sexting is ridiculous and emotional cheating, he may not have physically touched another person at all. which isn't as bad IMO.

<blockquote><b>Quoting JiLLiAN.:</b>" AND while sexting is ridiculous and emotional cheating, he may not have physically touched another person at all. which isn't as bad IMO."</blockquote>




Well I think that needs to be part of the conversation. Either way the trust is damaged and it's HIS job to rebuild it.

Thanks guys. I don't know what up with him. Today I'm so mad that talking would just result in yelling. So I'm going to go to work and think about it. Obviously something is wrong. Hopefully though he is man enough to tell me what's up. He like to play if I ignore it shell forget game.