re: Loosing your Virginity to a virgin?

For me it hurt for 10 seconds and after that it was like I couldn't feel anything. I think it was just nerves. I spotted afterward but not a lot. There was blood when I went to go clean myself up and that was it

Me and my husband were each others first and i don't remember there being any bleeding or pain at all so i must have already popped mine sometime earlier. but i agree you better bring lots of lube!

<blockquote><b>Quoting MysticWitchKat:</b>" I think she means nothing done between them sexually before the wedding is all"</blockquote>




That's what I meant  

My cherry popped from getting fingered i dont remember it hurting.. and it wasn't alot of blood.

<blockquote><b>Quoting MysticWitchKat:</b>" http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=9qFojO8WkpA"</blockquote>




Thanks a billion! I usually watch Laci Green but I somehow missed this video.  

Quoting paris.:" I'm going to be losing my v card to a virgin on my wedding night with no foreplay done before that. So ... [snip!] ... Does it hurt a lot? Did you bleed a lot? How long did it take until you both started enjoying it? Any tips? Do you regret it?"

Since it is his first time as well, you shouldn't have to worry about him lasting too long. Most guys don't last very long their first time.

mama... others are saying lube... but just because you havne't done anything before your wedding night (admirable I guess) doesn't mean you can't or won't that night right?

take it slow, spend time getting to know each others body's. touch each other. It'll go MUCH better if you're fully turned on before you start. make sure you have open communication, let him know what feels good and what doesn't, and vice versa.

No foreplay first? Why?

It's going to suck and probably hurt, lol... I cried my first time.

Took me at least 2 months to enjoy it.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Rd.:</b>" No foreplay first? Why? It's going to suck and probably hurt, lol... I cried my first time. Took me at least 2 months to enjoy it."</blockquote>




I mean like no foreplay before the wedding night. It's a cultural thing for him so I respect that.

Aww!

It's not too awkward since you are in love and comfortable with eachother, but don't expect it to feel good or have sparks flying or anything lol

Okay... Honey, foreplay is necessary. I don't know if you are aware of the definition of foreplay. It's not "playing before marriage". It's playing before intercourse! That's how you get things wet and warmed up down there so that it doesn't hurt as badly. Lots of it is pretty much necessary. You need to do more than just a few kisses and then boinking.

It hurt for me majorly because I wasn't given ENOUGH foreplay and we didn't have any good lube...but he came within 2 inches of entry anyway, so I guess it didn't matter lol.

Kudos to you for waiting. I hope it works out. I waited as well, but my experience was less than stellar.

<blockquote><b>Quoting RainbowDash:</b>" Okay... Honey, foreplay is necessary. I don't know if you are aware of the definition of foreplay. It's ... [snip!] ... didn't matter lol. Kudos to you for waiting. I hope it works out. I waited as well, but my experience was less than stellar."</blockquote>




Yeah. When i lost mine it hurt like a SOB. But we never did foreplay. At all. I was, however, 14 years old. And didnt know what i was doing. He was 17 and a virgin as well..

Nothing for 2 years though at all?

I lost mine to my husband who was also a virgin. No bleeding or pain but it was awkward and didn't last long. But after practice....yummm!