Do I have the Right?

My husband and I just had our daughter two months ago. AT first he was great, THEN after about a month he started takeing her when he got home so I can make dinner, and thats it, HE at first would take her when he got home and would get her 4 am feeding, that also stoped now he says only to wake him IF I need the help NOT want it. WELL his mother had the baby for a week, So we could clean. He promised to help. WELL this week started friday, That day he worked so I cleaned, THEN when he got home we went to play mtg and do laundry [at my parents] THEN back to the house where he got on the Game system to play RE6 =[ that and have Sex was all he wanted too do, well he promised the next day, which turned into us going too his dads, then monday his dad came to our house, TUESDAY the last day we had he promised to help but didn't and Blamed it on me for having the xbox on when I was waiting for him to get home, We got the baby Wednesday and came home,he promised to help with the baby so we could clean with her,BUT he decided RE6 was a better choice. The thing of it is.... I ended up being the only one to clean the house, WHERE there WAS THREE bags of MT dew bottles <-- for the record I find MT dew disgusting , e leaves his trash for me to pick up and then says 'thats your job as a wife' and that 'I get all the time in the world' WITH A 2 MONTH OLD!!!!!!!!!!

Well last night we fought about this, and it ended in a bad fight, HE NEVER APOLOGIZES =[!! the thing is I find it sexist he thinks that way,not only that but what angers me the most is, when we go out, ITS his way or no way, We do what he wants and If I want to do it his exact words are " I dont, you can do it Alone' =[ he is my only transport, btw. EVERYTHING that matters to me that I request to do, gets thrown out the window, SO I have been telling him no, WE cant go there it ends in a fight but whatever, HE literally calls me all sorts of names including RACIST names of Races that I am not, and the meanest names out there not just that but he begins repeating every word I say.

Well today I AM STUCK doing laundry and taking care of the baby [ which doesnt bother me] Alone, WHY? because he wanted too go 3 hours away and when I asked him too stay home he flipped out telling me I had no right..   I ended up feeling horrid for it afterwards and am still crying [from 9pm] HE rarely puts aside the things he wants too do, FOR me...when I said he should he denied that he should that I shouldn't have to go where he goes [despite its my only way to get out of the house] if it makes me so unhappy, which is why he doesnt go where I want too.

IDK but I feel that he said I Do so therefore he should make as many sacrifices as I do. =[!! IF NOT think of how I feel how about how his Daughter feels..

IDK maybe I don't have that right... =[

If he really is that much of an smurf leave him. Someone who calls you names, has no care for what you want and can leave you not caring if you are upset isnt worth it. You owe it to your daughter to be a happy person and I just dont see how you can be that with a guy like him around.

what an ass hole idk how u put up with that hun! he either needs to get his act together or try and find someone else to put up with his crap!

The "That's your job as a wife" comment would seriously lead to me divorcing DH alone. If he ever said that to me and wasn't joking, we would be over. I'm all for trying to make relationships work, but you sound like you'd be better off on your own.

No offense but i'd be divorcing the smurf out of this man. He doesn't treat you right, he has no respect for you, all he wants to do is play video games & on top of that he's a total smurf when he's confronted about just helping around the house & with the baby HE helped make. I understand he works but damn! There is seriously a limit to how much smurf someone should have to shovel in order to just have help cleaning house.

I'm with the above posters, kick his ass out. It sounds like you're already doing it all yourself anyway. If you can, get a friend or family member to help you, put you up for a while. Get together everything you can think that you might need for a week or so, including some groceries and any of your toiletries. Let him come home to an empty house to live in the mess he's made.

I agree, if that was me I'd leave him so fast. If I were you I would stop doing his laundry and making him food and all that. Let him starve and run out of clean clothes and if he snaps at you for it because sorry I'm not your mother or something like that. I am sick in tired of males treating women this way. Its time we all stand up for ourselves!