re: Opinions?

Quoting Ell.bear:" Well he kept giving her his skype name and I clearly asked him if he was video chatting with,her and he said no. then I ask him last night again he says they did"

How did you find out he kept giving it to her? And are you a jealous person?

Yes I am a little jelous to be honest

But thats not the point if im a little jelous. Do you think he lied? How would you feel in the same situation?

Quoting Ell.bear:" But thats not the point if im a little jelous. Do you think he lied? How would you feel in the same situation?"

Actually that might be the point :-P. If you are jealous then something innocent he might lie about because he knows you won't take it well. He eventually did admit it though which shows he is probably telling the truth.

<blockquote><b>Quoting MysticWitchKat:</b>" Actually that might be the point :-P. If you are jealous then something innocent he might lie about because ... [snip!] ... about because he knows you won't take it well. He eventually did admit it though which shows he is probably telling the truth."</blockquote>


Yes but I feel like theres no reason to be doing it at all if your with me. But he also said he just did it because she was online so he just decided to call her. And you do have a good point idk I geuss my feelings are just hurt

Quoting Ell.bear:" <blockquote><b>Quoting MysticWitchKat:</b>" Actually that might be the point :-P. If ... [snip!] ... it because she was online so he just decided to call her. And you do have a good point idk I geuss my feelings are just hurt"

I mean it's just like a phone call, and sometimes your SO is going to have friends of the opposite sex. So just tell him if he does do it you'd appreciate it only being done when you are home for your piece of mind is all.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ell.bear:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting MysticWitchKat:</b>" So? It's just like a phone call."</blockquote> ... [snip!] ... How would you feel if your husband was on webcam with another girl and lied about it? You'd be mad to"</blockquote>




The ONLY thing I would be mad about is that he lied to me

Well wecaming with someone else doesnt fly with me at all

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ell.bear:</b>" Well wecaming with someone else doesnt fly with me at all"</blockquote>




I agree with you! Talking on the phone to catch up or whatever is one thing, but why is there a need for webcam? Especially behind your back. And even that is a little weird to me when they could have just talked on fb ya know? Hubby would definitely be in the dog house for that one! Skype is way too personal in my opinion.

I know right. Like smurf you can talk on FB but you dont have to skype while im not home thats just shady af. Lucky for my hubby we dont have a dog house lmao

<blockquote><b>Quoting MysticWitchKat:</b>" I mean it's just like a phone call, and sometimes your SO is going to have friends of the opposite sex. ... [snip!] ... sex. So just tell him if he does do it you'd appreciate it only being done when you are home for your piece of mind is all."</blockquote>




what i get out of this is that its not the point he did it, she's upset he lied about it, my husband knows I'm a jealous bitch when it comes to him talking to other girls, but he still tells me about it just because he has tried to hide things in the past and its caused me to almost leave him