Quoting SammyS18:" It feels like an EXTREMELY bad period cramping. It sucks. I spent the whole time either on the couch ... [snip!] ... him/her or hear the heartbeat I'm reassured. So I hope and pray things will work out for you and your husband just as well. "
We hope it works out too, next time. I have to look at things logically. Everytime I think "angel baby", and that I won't be able to feel kicks with this one, or anything, it upsets me. So I just think of the medical aspect. The miscarriage is early, the embryo isn't even developed completely, it has nothing to make it a fetus yet. It's too early to see a heartbeat anyhow. If I think of it like that...I can at least pull myself back from the situation emotionally, and save myself that heartache. DH and I had been trying 9 months, not long, I know. We both really, really wanted this.
I understand these things happen, but man, it sucks. Big time.