|Yes, you're a bitch|
|No, completely understandable|
Quoting Lin Brown:" Try to explain to them why your not comfortable with going there, if they were real friends they will understand and respect you by choosing a different place"
Quoting NevviesMom:" If that's the case, why even go and put yourselves in that situation? DH and I used to go to bars together ... [snip!] ... we decided we couldn't do the bar scene cos it just wasn't worth it. Are your friends going to eat and drink or just drink?"