wasnt sure were to put this

Dh acted like a big baby last night over having to use a condom and I can't take hormonal birthcontrol. Also I had and I'd before and it was Hell. What are my other options? We want to wait a couple years before we have our last baby.

That's what I wanna know too. I don't do well with condoms. I always get an infection when I use them. They hurt me. But I also don't want hormonal bc again. I've struggled too much with that. There HAS to be something out there  

NFP(natural family planning)
DH and I used it since last November but I started getting lazy with charting my ovulation and got pregnant in April '12 and had a miscarriage and then because my periods were so off track I got pregnant again 3 months later...but women who actually keep up with it can go years without getting pregnant.

idk, I'm in a similar predicament. We've just been pulling & praying. Ha ha ha. Although, we don't have sex often as he works evenings.

If u are finished having kids then u could look into essure

Quoting 1inpink2inblue:" Dh acted like a big baby last night over having to use a condom and I can't take hormonal birthcontrol. ... [snip!] ... I had and I'd before and it was Hell. What are my other options? We want to wait a couple years before we have our last baby."

Yeah mine is acting like a baby too, but I wont have sex at all until I get my tubal done in December, and we have a 12 day old! he just doesn't get it!! But if you are wanting more later then I would try the copper IUD, there is no hormones and I have heard great things about it

We want one more kid in a couple years. I just had a baby so I'm breastfeeding and didn't get a period last time I bf for 5 months.

We use NFP, no mess ups yet! But we don't have sex that much. Lol we are cosleeping with dd.

Quoting 1inpink2inblue:" Dh acted like a big baby last night over having to use a condom and I can't take hormonal birthcontrol. ... [snip!] ... I had and I'd before and it was Hell. What are my other options? We want to wait a couple years before we have our last baby."

I used contraceptive film for almost a year with success. I got drunk and forgot to use it and got pregnant... but that could happen with condoms too.

<blockquote><b>Quoting snglemama:</b>" I used contraceptive film for almost a year with success. I got drunk and forgot to use it and got pregnant... but that could happen with condoms too."</blockquote>


What's that and where do u get it?

Quoting Elliot Grace's Mommy :" We use NFP, no mess ups yet! But we don't have sex that much. Lol we are cosleeping with dd."

Lol co-sleeping seems to be a good birth control..whether you want it to be or not.

Quoting lolajessup:" <blockquote><b>Quoting snglemama:</b>" I used contraceptive film for almost a year ... [snip!] ... to use it and got pregnant... but that could happen with condoms too."</blockquote> What's that and where do u get it?"

it's spermacide in a little film.. looks kinda like a lkisterine strip? you insert it over your cervix, wait 20 minutes for it to melt (mandantory foreplay?!) then have sex. You have I think a 4 hour window (read directions first) so you can insert one before if you think you might have sex so it doesn't kill the mood.

I would get optical migraines from hormonal birth controll.and am sensitive to condoms. so I used this before getting my tubal.

<blockquote><b>Quoting snglemama:</b>" it's spermacide in a little film.. looks kinda like a lkisterine strip? you insert it over your cervix, ... [snip!] ... I would get optical migraines from hormonal birth controll.and am sensitive to condoms. so I used this before getting my tubal."</blockquote>


Where do u get it?

<blockquote><b>Quoting snglemama:</b>" it's spermacide in a little film.. looks kinda like a lkisterine strip? you insert it over your cervix, ... [snip!] ... I would get optical migraines from hormonal birth controll.and am sensitive to condoms. so I used this before getting my tubal."</blockquote>




This is so cool why have I never heard of this?!

Have yall tried sheep skin condoms? I can't use condonems because I am alerjec to them. But I used sheep skin a few times and never broak out with them. Just a sugjestion