re: Zelda Ruby.

Quoting Winter Blaze:" Like I said before, my kids will mean the world to me. I don't give a damn what some on the Internet, who doesn't know me, thinks. Now, leave me alone."

You've made it clear that you plan on basically buying your children with disability payments and then using it to live off of - sorry, but thats smurfed up and I have every right to judge someone who plans to purposely mess up a childs life like that.

Quoting LolaMcKitten:" You've made it clear that you plan on basically buying your children with disability payments and then ... [snip!] ... of - sorry, but thats smurfed up and I have every right to judge someone who plans to purposely mess up a childs life like that."

There's someone in CNL that's TTC and is on FS and assistance. Drives me batty.

Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" There's someone in CNL that's TTC and is on FS and assistance. Drives me batty."

I wouldn't do it - just feels extremely unfair to the child. you can;t sit there and claim that your kids mean the world to you when you purposefully bring them into a situation like that. I mean - smurf happens, accidents happen all the time, birth control isn't 100% and I would never expect a couple to go without being intimate - but to do it on purpose is really, really dumb.

Quoting Winter Blaze:" Do you ever stop? Damn."

You're the one who put your ridiculous plan out there on the internet - you can't get pissed when people judge you and tell you it's a horrible idea.

Quoting LolaMcKitten:" I wouldn't do it - just feels extremely unfair to the child. you can;t sit there and claim that your ... [snip!] ... isn't 100% and I would never expect a couple to go without being intimate - but to do it on purpose is really, really dumb. "

Yeah said person had BC removed to do so. Ours was an oopsie. I mean could have probably been prevented better but still. We paid cash for every single thing Rory has, no one supplied a thing for him. Another is going to make things super tight though   I didn't want another this soon.

Quoting Winter Blaze:" I didn't. I asked about a name. Zelda."

Yes you have - many, many times on your multiple accounts.

Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" Yeah said person had BC removed to do so. Ours was an oopsie. I mean could have probably been prevented ... [snip!] ... has, no one supplied a thing for him. Another is going to make things super tight though   I didn't want another this soon."

Feel better knowing that it gets easier with multiple children. I know that sounds weird, but it's totally true. I mean - you just had Rory, you probably still have a bulk of the items, the longrun is going to be a bit more, but the initial shelling out 100's of dollars isn't going to hurt as bad.

Quoting LolaMcKitten:" Feel better knowing that it gets easier with multiple children. I know that sounds weird, but it's totally ... [snip!] ... of the items, the longrun is going to be a bit more, but the initial shelling out 100's of dollars isn't going to hurt as bad. "

Oh yeah I'm happy about that for sure. We'll have to buy another crib, and stroller, and high chair. And if it's a girl, clothes. And some clothes if it's a boy. A lot less than we did before lol. I even have another convertible car seat I'd gotten him when I was 9 weeks that doesn't fit in our car. We have to get a new car though. His seat barely fits in our car now.

Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" Oh yeah I'm happy about that for sure. We'll have to buy another crib, and stroller, and high chair. ... [snip!] ... him when I was 9 weeks that doesn't fit in our car. We have to get a new car though. His seat barely fits in our car now."

Since there so close, could you swing a double stroller? I'm thinking about getting one this next time around.

Only down side is that they are quite annoying if you try to go to the mall.

Quoting LolaMcKitten:" Since there so close, could you swing a double stroller? I'm thinking about getting one this next time around. Only down side is that they are quite annoying if you try to go to the mall. "

We're just going to do 2 separate ones. Easier to maneuver. If we're both there one stroller each, if it's just me, wear newbie and put him in the stroller. Or reverse.

Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" We're just going to do 2 separate ones. Easier to maneuver. If we're both there one stroller each, if it's just me, wear newbie and put him in the stroller. Or reverse."

Oh, that reminds me, I need to get Georgina to send me some sites that have patterns for homemade wraps. James insists we dont need one cause we have a Snuggli - but I freakin hate that thing. Ever wear one? It's awful.

Quoting LolaMcKitten:" Oh, that reminds me, I need to get Georgina to send me some sites that have patterns for homemade wraps. ... [snip!] ... wraps. James insists we dont need one cause we have a Snuggli - but I freakin hate that thing. Ever wear one? It's awful. "

I have a freehand mei tai omg sooo love it! Was totally worth the $60.

Quoting Winter Blaze:" Stay off my question!! Go away!! "

Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" I have a freehand mei tai omg sooo love it! Was totally worth the $60."

Oh, I'll have to look into that! I really want something different, I want to baby-wear but that snugli....no, can't do it. Where did you get yours from?

Quoting LolaMcKitten:" Oh, I'll have to look into that! I really want something different, I want to baby-wear but that snugli....no, can't do it. Where did you get yours from?"

I got mine on Amazon. I LOVE it. I can back, hip, and front carry and it's good to 35lbs.