Quoting snglemama:" OP- I hate to sound like a bitch during the holidays... but you're a train wreck... and the epitome of ... [snip!] ... days later... using little swimmers for diapers because you cannot afford any. seriously? try getting your smurf together first."
First of all, we do live with my mother.
She's on disability and only makes $882 a month for all four of us.
Yeah, we were TTC. When I had a job. and so who cares if I was talking about TTC? Nobody said I was going to do it immediately. Just because I want another child doesn't mean I don't know I'm not financially stable enough. And DH is disabled, so thanks.
I talk about MIL, SIL, and BIL. Never my father, because he's not in my life, and FIL has been dead for three years. I have never said one nice thing about my mother in law. Not once. And yeah, I'm close with SIL and BIL because they're 13 and 7. They also live an hour away and we never see them.
Notice the order of the things you posted?
Yeah, smurf went downhill, and quick.
I wasn't asking for anyone to give me anything. I was venting.
Sorry that I'm having a hard smurfing time.