re: There goes the holidays.

Quoting Disney Mamma:" DH and I are well off its really no trouble."

Send some my way  


j/k

Quoting Disney Mamma:" DH and I are well off its really no trouble."

You are so sweet and thoughtful! Thank you for being so generous this holiday season <3 You're a saint!

<blockquote><b>Quoting tinana +2:</b>" Send some my way   j/k"</blockquote>



I would just hate to see a child go without when we are more than capable to help. I would hope someone would do the same for my son.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Unique Mama:</b>" You are so sweet and thoughtful! Thank you for being so generous this holiday season <3 You're a saint!"</blockquote>


Nope not a saint at all. I really hope OP PMs me though.i would really love to help!

OP- I hate to sound like a bitch during the holidays... but you're a train wreck... and the epitome of what's wrong with the country.

You're on here complaining about money... butlooking through your old posts... you were/are living with your mom. Both you and your SO are unemployed, and were at least a couple months ago TTC. One day you were complaining about not getting enough money in food stamps... 3 days later talking about your new tattoo...then 2 weeks later talking about everything getting shut off. then.. a week after that talking about how you can't wait to TTC again! then.. 3 days later... using little swimmers for diapers because you cannot afford any. seriously? try getting your smurf together first.

Quoting snglemama:" OP- I hate to sound like a bitch during the holidays... but you're a train wreck... and the epitome of ... [snip!] ... days later... using little swimmers for diapers because you cannot afford any. seriously? try getting your smurf together first."

  

<blockquote><b>Quoting snglemama:</b>" OP- I hate to sound like a bitch during the holidays... but you're a train wreck... and the epitome of ... [snip!] ... days later... using little swimmers for diapers because you cannot afford any. seriously? try getting your smurf together first."</blockquote>




  that's just a sad sad train wreck

<blockquote><b>Quoting snglemama:</b>" OP- I hate to sound like a bitch during the holidays... but you're a train wreck... and the epitome of ... [snip!] ... days later... using little swimmers for diapers because you cannot afford any. seriously? try getting your smurf together first."</blockquote>




  wow...

Quoting privet devushka:"   "

is that to me or her? sorry.. but I speak the truth.

and.. she's either lying about family... or burned bridges. SHe clearly talks about her mom, MIL, SIL, father, BIL etc... in her posts... sounds like they are all close.

Quoting snglemama:" is that to me or her? sorry.. but I speak the truth. and.. she's either lying about family... or ... [snip!] ... bridges. SHe clearly talks about her mom, MIL, SIL, father, BIL etc... in her posts... sounds like they are all close. "

No no, I agree with you!

Quoting privet devushka:" No no, I agree with you!"

I hate that I'm cynical... but too many people have scammed the nice moms on BG willing to send gifts and help to those complaining during the holidays. Anytime I'm tempted to send help.. I read through past threads first.

<blockquote><b>Quoting snglemama:</b>" I hate that I'm cynical... but too many people have scammed the nice moms on BG willing to send gifts ... [snip!] ... gifts and help to those complaining during the holidays. Anytime I'm tempted to send help.. I read through past threads first."</blockquote>




That's my concern with the holiday angels thingy

Quoting snglemama:" OP- I hate to sound like a bitch during the holidays... but you're a train wreck... and the epitome of ... [snip!] ... days later... using little swimmers for diapers because you cannot afford any. seriously? try getting your smurf together first."

First of all, we do live with my mother.
She's on disability and only makes $882 a month for all four of us.
Yeah, we were TTC. When I had a job. and so who cares if I was talking about TTC? Nobody said I was going to do it immediately. Just because I want another child doesn't mean I don't know I'm not financially stable enough. And DH is disabled, so thanks.
I talk about MIL, SIL, and BIL. Never my father, because he's not in my life, and FIL has been dead for three years. I have never said one nice thing about my mother in law. Not once. And yeah, I'm close with SIL and BIL because they're 13 and 7. They also live an hour away and we never see them.
Notice the order of the things you posted?
Yeah, smurf went downhill, and quick.
I wasn't asking for anyone to give me anything. I was venting.
Sorry that I'm having a hard smurfing time.

It sucks about your job   /hugs!!! Hunny if I knew it was that bad I would have got you here to watch my kids! <3 Imma try to get little miss something it may not be anything big but something and bring it out to yall for you to say it is from you guys!

Quoting Mother of Hayward.:" First of all, we do live with my mother. She's on disability and only makes $882 a month for all four ... [snip!] ... downhill, and quick. I wasn't asking for anyone to give me anything. I was venting. Sorry that I'm having a hard smurfing time."

whatever you need to say to make yourself feel better. You were talking about how you were TTC after you were talking about being jobless. I guess if it were me.. I'd cut off internet and buy my kid diapers... but I have silly priorities.