Quoting snglemama:" I did. but only because they're both smurfing children wasn't an option. If you feel the need to quickly hide your computer screen... you ALREADY KNOW you're in the wrong.,"

Well. if you think about how he acted about her taking too long to get out of bed to make him something to eat. Obviously, he would get onto her & treat her like smurf for venting about his childish ass attitude.

Quoting MissyMom0812:" I was taking a nap because the baby was up all night, and of course he has never gotten up with her, ... [snip!] ... gave me like 30 seconds to get up before he started slamming smurf. He has a 60 minute lunch break and works 5 minutes away...."

yea, sorry. I misunderstood.. read it too fast. I thought he asked you to go to lunch with him and you didn't get moving fast enough.

either way... he was an ass.. but you wouldn't be happy if you caught him trash talking you either. his response was inappropriate. NEVER let a man treat you like a child. he has no rkight to tel you what you can and cannot do.

She clearly stated that all she did was tell her friend what he did. She wasen't trash talking him. His overreacting is obviously because he knows what he did was wrong and is acting out. Mine does that smurf all the time. He smurfs up, knows he smurfed up, and instead of apologizing or even admitting it, gets pissed at me for CATCHING him doing something he isen't suppose to >.<

<blockquote><b>Quoting snglemama:</b>" I did. but only because they're both smurfing children wasn't an option. If you feel the need to quickly hide your computer screen... you ALREADY KNOW you're in the wrong.,"</blockquote>

I'm sorry but if my husband ever treated me like her SO did there would be a serious problem in my house. He acted like he was doing her some kind of favor by having a iob and letting her live there and she was a child who he was going to take a privelidge away from as punishment. He obviously doesn't respect her or think of her as an equal and that is smurfing bullsmurf. And regardless of the gender of her friend, she is allowed to vent. Everyone is.