Quoting Chroma Hex [+1]:" Honey, I don't know what to say. =[ Sex IS an important part of marriage, it's the ultimate bond. I know ... [snip!] ... is he? Have you thought about trying to have date nights or something like that? I really wish I knew what to say to help. =["
He's about to be 23. We have conversations a lot not just about these issues either, but I can't tell you how many times I have talked to him about all of this. He lost him job a while back and lost his insurance through them. He recently started a new job but he doesn't have any insurance yet, so if we did do any kind of counseling it would have to be after he gets insurance and that's if he will even agree to it then. We never really go on dates, but the most recent times we have went out together it's been us just going in to eat, not really anything interesting...we literally eat our food and leave, then go back home. Even when I've tried to plan romantic things for us myself, he doesn't want to go along with it or something comes up.