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why always me :,(

posted 16th Nov
I miscarried 5months ago. And was so so upset it wasn't planned. Me and my partner decided we wanted a baby together so we was going to try again. I've waited 5months witch felt like a life time and I fanilly fell pregnant again me and my boyfriend was over the moor as I'd bin told by midwife that 50% of first pregnancys end in miscarriage but it would be different this time as its no longer 50% think she said it was about 25%
Soo yayy am pregnant. TILL yesterday there was a pink spotting straight away I rang the hospital she told me everything was fine. Couple of hours later it went light brown with bits of red. So once again rang hospital. They said its fine that's a good sign if anything. They said but come in tomorrow and we will rea sure you that its fine as I was panking..
So went in had bloods done she told me her appinion was that it would be fine and just normal.
Got home to find a dark red on the toilet paper I cried my eyes out for a while then got that all important phone call off the hospital. And they said I'd miscarried near anoth straight away. :,(
We wanted that baby so much and its gone.
Can I try straight away?
And if yes how soon after will ovulation happen again?x
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posted 16th Nov
You should ask your doctor to check your progesterone levels before you try again in case you have low levels causing MC. I personally wouldst try right away I would wait.
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I have 3 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Costa Mesa, California
posted 16th Nov
What? They can't tell you over a phone call that you miscarried. And blood on the toilet paper isn't a sure sign of miscarriage.

Hell, i bled bright red blood with HUGE clots twice during early pregnancy and spotted in between and I now have a healthy, happy 7 month old. Bleeding isn't always a miscarriage, you need to go into the hospital.
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I have 1 child & live in Indiana
posted 16th Nov
Nevermind, i misunderstood. Sorry for your loss  
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I have 1 child & live in Indiana
posted 16th Nov
Wait, why did they determine you miscarried? Because of your levels? Did you have two draws done in a span of 48 hours?

Also, trying again soon after will not increase your chances of a miscarriage. You need to get in touch with your body and determine your cycle lengths. There is also other things you can do such as supplements and hormones but that's at the hands of a Dr. I'm sorry for your losses.
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I have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Montego Bay, Jamaica
posted 16th Nov
I'm sorry for your losses. I know how much that hurts. I had 2 losses in 4 months.
Still don't know why.
I would wait until you have 1 or 2 cycles before you try again.
I wish you lots of luck.
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I have 1 child & 2 angel babies & live in North Carolina
posted 16th Nov
Im sorry for you loss mama... I know exactly how you feel and it just rips your heart out... and breaks it... I had someone tell me I was lucky... i was like really how... and she responded you always have a little angel watching down over you. I bawled. but everytime i feel like I am going to break down I talk to my baby and remember I always have a special little person watching over me.
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I have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Wayland, Michigan
posted 16th Nov
Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:" What? They can't tell you over a phone call that you miscarried. And blood on the toilet paper isn't ... [snip!] ... in between and I now have a healthy, happy 7 month old. Bleeding isn't always a miscarriage, you need to go into the hospital."
I've been told over the phone I was having a miscarriage. It wasn't unexpected news, but it still hurt.
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I'm due July 6th (a boy), have 3 kids & 3 angel babies & live in Dothan, Alabama
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