<blockquote><b>Quoting khigh:</b>" Thank you! That's a really nice compliment."</blockquote>




I agree completely with her!

Quoting HopingforaMiracle:" <blockquote><b>Quoting khigh:</b>" Thank you! That's a really nice compliment."</blockquote> I agree completely with her!"

YOU!


Why you little...


















Why aren't you in my PT by now? I'm totally PTing you

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kelly&Coralie:</b>" YOU! Why you little... Why aren't you in my PT by now? I'm totally PTing you"</blockquote>




You scared me lol I can't PT on my phone but will once I'm on the computer! Thanks  

Quoting Kelly&Coralie:" Scenario You are pregnant from a one night stand or from a friend. Not in a relationship You decide ... [snip!] ... I don't care if you are antiabortion. This decision is made All of this is a hypothetical situation of course"

I personally think, especially if he wanted the baby, that he has a right to know at least.

I wouldn't tell a ons, but I'd tell a friend, ongoing fwb or smurf buddy, or anyone I was in a relationship with no matter how long we'd been together

Quoting Kristina98785:" He has a right to know and take in part of the decision process, it's his child too."

I don't think he has any right to be part of the decision making progress personally.

If it was a 1 night stand, no I wouldnt tell the father. If it was a close friend, possibly depending on how close we were, but if I was 100% sure I was going t abort regardless I dont think I would tell anyone.

If the "father" was clearly a horrible person who I had no desire to ever speak with again, ever, then I might not mention it.

But what am I doing sleeping with the dregs? Was I raped?


I'd tell the guy. You have to. Let him have a say in what happens, or believe that he does. Especially if he's a good person. Of course, if he were any good he wouldn't want me to have the abortion, in which case, that's a tough one right there...
I'd already 100% decided to do it, right?

Yeah, I don't know. That's a really bizarre hypothetical situation.

Quoting Kristina98785:" He has a right to know and take in part of the decision process, it's his child too."

My body My rules.

Quoting [JadeLee]:" Maybe your SO should have used a condom if he did not want his fetuses terminated. Three times he knocked people up, you would think he would have learned."

Oh Snap!

Quoting mamaluvsher4babies:" wow..that made no sense at all. Of course its the mans fault. pffttt"

No it's both of their faults or neither if it was a bc failure. However in general you find that men more often place the burden of bc on women then the other way around. IMO both should take responsibility. Yes she told him to bang her without protection, but no one said he had to. He plays just as much responsibility as she does in that matter.

Quoting khigh:" <blockquote><b>Quoting [JadeLee]:</b>" Maybe your SO should have used a condom if he ... [snip!] ... people up, you would think he would have learned."</blockquote> Always the man's fault, huh? One was his wife."

No but he doesn't really have right to be upset if he keeps having continual unprotected sex either.

No because I really have no desire to create a drama filled situation. I would not keep the fetal unit anyway, so there is no reason to bring it up.

I wouldn't tell. What would the point be? If he's okay with the abortion then fine but if he's not I wouldn't want him trying to change my mind.

Quoting Tarynosaurus Rex:" I wouldn't tell. What would the point be? If he's okay with the abortion then fine but if he's not I wouldn't want him trying to change my mind."

*fist bump*