re: Teen parenting, 13 year age difference, DNA & Child Support

Well if he is a 31 year old with a 16 year old daughter he should know how hard it is to be a teen parent and take responceablity for having sex with you. I hope the old friend leaves you alone and things work out for you.

Quoting £egendary £ex:" I think you are doing the right thing. & I would save all those messages of her harassing you"

This!

Quoting 2happy:" Well if he is a 31 year old with a 16 year old daughter he should know how hard it is to be a teen parent ... [snip!] ... parent and take responceablity for having sex with you. I hope the old friend leaves you alone and things work out for you."

He walked out her life when her mom was 6 months pregnant! She calls another man her "dad" since the real one recently walked back in her life.

Don't feel bad for him! He came into the room and had sex with you, everyone knows sex has one purpose, to make babies . He is just as responsible as you are for that little girl!! Be strong you're doing the right thing

ust keep your head high babydoll

Quoting Rydicule91:" Don't feel bad for him! He came into the room and had sex with you, everyone knows sex has one purpose, ... [snip!] ... purpose, to make babies . He is just as responsible as you are for that little girl!! Be strong you're doing the right thing"

Exactly! You would think a grown ass man with 3 kids would know by now to use a damn condom (and not to sleep with a teenager but that seems to slip many men's minds) during sex!

You did the right thing by telling the truth even if it was a little late. Save those harassing messages too from the daughter just in case! He needs to take care of this child, and you did the right thing by your daughter.

She admitted that her dad wasn't even in her life.

You should not feel bad for that man. He is an adult that messed with a teenage girl. He knew what he was doing so too bad for him. Good luck!

He should not have touched you. That is sick, what kind of man could have sex with a child his daughters age, his daughters friend at that. I just think that is wrong that he took advantage of you. I am so sorry you are going through this. I do feel bad for his daughter that has got to be tough on her that her father did what he did and she is taking it out on you. Your daughter deserves for him to take responsibility for his actions. I dont know how old you were at the time of conception but they may be afraid of the legal percussion's of his actions and perhaps that is why he is avoiding you. Either way tough cookies on his part he should not have been having sex with a teenage girl, now a human being has been created from that and he needs to be a father, at least support her financially. Good luck hope things work out

Quoting mommy of 3 bratz:" He should not have touched you. That is sick, what kind of man could have sex with a child his daughters ... [snip!] ... being has been created from that and he needs to be a father, at least support her financially. Good luck hope things work out"

Not to mention sending his own daughter to get her number for him!!!  

Quoting Mel & a girl named Pey:" Not to mention sending his own daughter to get her number for him!!!  "

Yeah I cant say with his actions I would even want him around my child. Thas just me

Quoting mommy of 3 bratz:" Yeah I cant say with his actions I would even want him around my child. Thas just me"

Right!? I wonder if they will take him to jail with her taking him to court because its statutory rape, depending on state.

Quoting Mel & a girl named Pey:" Right!? I wonder if they will take him to jail with her taking him to court because its statutory rape, depending on state."

she said shes from new jersey. the age of consent is 16.

Quoting Mel & a girl named Pey:" Right!? I wonder if they will take him to jail with her taking him to court because its statutory rape, depending on state."

Exactly, becoming a parent changes the way we think she is a mom now I would look at what he did as wrong and should be punished. I know if I found out I allowed my teenage daughter over a friends house and come to find out my daughters friends father was screwing my daughter I would flucking kill him. Oh my god that is so disgusting and wrong this man shouldnt be allowed around children under the age of 18. God I cant even imagine being her mother. This guy is pretty sick if you ask me, say he is in this babies life is he going to go and screw her friends when she gets older and brings them around. Makes me sick.