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I've been wanting to clean out our extra bedroom before we have our 2nd baby and before I got too big to do it... It didn't happen finally last weekend I called in back up and did it myself 11 more days till they take the girls, the room is almost cleaned out!! This weekend like 5 people ate coming over to help me! Since he doesn't want to help I'll figure it out!

It's very frustrating!

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Maybe you need to be sitting him down and explaining things need to change.

Quoting MysticWitchKat:" Maybe you need to be sitting him down and explaining things need to change."

Something needs to happen. I mean, he's not ungrateful at all. He compliments me all the time. He has been helping more around the house and with LO since I've been working more. I kind of feel like a lot of the problem is stemming from me though. I'm just so frustrated and pissed, I was ready to have a great weekend and get smurf done and everything has been going really well with us since we talked and cried together last week, and now we're back to bullsmurf and I'm not going to get anything done this weekend.

I just asked him why he's mad at me and he said he's not, he just doesn't feel good and has had a bad day.

Quoting Colt's mommy:" Something needs to happen. I mean, he's not ungrateful at all. He compliments me all the time. He has ... [snip!] ... we talked and cried together last week, and now we're back to bullsmurf and I'm not going to get anything done this weekend. "

Just tell him he needs to pick up the slack because you have had it.