what would you do ?

Okay, so I've been recently talking with this guy online & we are supposed to meet on Sunday.
But, today one of my ex's ( I've wanted to be with him for a long time )..asked me if we could work out a new relationship, we've known each other for 7 years & have always loved one another.

What would you do ?

would you go meet this online guy or try & make it work with your ex ?

I think if it's a question that needs to be figured out by thinking.... probably neither is what you really want. KWIM?

l;Quoting The Doctor:" I think if it's a question that needs to be figured out by thinking.... probably neither is what you really want. KWIM?"

I know what I want, I just wanted to get some other mama's answers...on which would they do if they were in my situation.

Quoting C A R M E L A:" I know what I want, I just wanted to get some other mama's answers...on which would they do if they were in my situation."

Hmm.

Well, I really couldn't answer it. If it was my ex and someone new.... I would probably go for someone new. But if it was your ex.... I dunno! Because I don't know the relationship and whatnot, yaknow?

I always say they are an ex for a reason...

id give the new guy a shot and see what he has to offer... just see how you connect with him on that first date and then base it off of that

Well there is the risk of this online guy not being who you thought he was, but also an ex is an ex for a reason and maybe a new guy would be best. But not all relationships break up for bad reasons so the ex might be a better choice. Pros and cons to both that only you would know since you know the reason for your breakup and you have been talking to this new guy.

Both. Smurf it. Maybe this new guy is really awesome and you guys hit it off. Or maybe he's a creeper. Maybe your ex is awesome, maybe he's a douche. How do you know if you don't give both a try?

Quoting Supafly★:" Both. Smurf it. Maybe this new guy is really awesome and you guys hit it off. Or maybe he's a creeper. Maybe your ex is awesome, maybe he's a douche. How do you know if you don't give both a try? "

that's true.
.lol

Why not see both? You aren't in a committed relationship so just have fun and date both until you figure out who you really want to be with. It may be neither.

Quoting C A R M E L A:" that's true. .lol"

Yeah go on dates with both. Feel them out and then decide.

Why did you guys separate in the first place? I think you should answer this question for yourself before making any decisions.

Quoting *B & D Mommy*:" Why did you guys separate in the first place? I think you should answer this question for yourself before making any decisions. "

I love your avi which reminds me I missed almost the whole episode of VD lastnight because I locked myself out the house,

Quoting That Girl.:" I love your avi which reminds me I missed almost the whole episode of VD lastnight because I locked myself out the house,"

Thank you   ....You can watch it on couchtuner.com ....that is what I do!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Supafly★:</b>" Both. Smurf it. Maybe this new guy is really awesome and you guys hit it off. Or maybe he's a creeper. Maybe your ex is awesome, maybe he's a douche. How do you know if you don't give both a try? "</blockquote>



So true!