Quoting *Expecting #3*:" I use to work at a strip club when I was 18.... (Its not something I liked doing, I just needed fast ... [snip!] ... girl more attention so she doesnt get too jealous, but if that guy comes in without her.....its a whole nother' story!!! haha"
Blah, if my SO decided to go to a strip club with his friends, I'd still be okay with it.
You see, I know there are men who take off their wedding rings, get blow jobs and screw women at strip clubs... oh, and did you know they do that at clubs and even work too? Yeah, if you are with a cheating bastard, doesn't matter where he goes, he will still be a cheating bastard.
I trust SO. If he cheats on me he loses me.... I'm not going to restrict the areas he can go to in order to "make sure" he doesn't cheat because that's unrealistic.
Also, the way we manage money, we pay the bills, buy the food, add to savings and all that responsible stuff, and then my daughter has an allowance, and so do I and so does SO. I can do anything I want with my "allowance", get my hair done, buy new clothes, blah blah blah... and he can do anything he wants.
But.. seriously, strip clubs here are actually pretty gross, and SO has no interest. Though we did have drinks in a brothel once, but we seriously didn't know it was a brothel until one of the prostitutes started hitting on my (virgin) friend! lmao (Tip, never play truth and dare with a hooker... especially while drunk!)