re: I feel so hurt....

Quoting Raptor Jesus:" That is smurfing terrible... I can't imagine my husband doing something like that =/ It would be absolutely heartbreaking and infuriating all at the same time."

I left him not long after it got that far, but touching me in my sleep went on for a looooong time. He started with hoping I would wake up and have sex with him, then he just started masturbating while touching me, then he went on to just doing whatever he wanted to me whenever he wanted and I left but sometimes now when my husband and I are getting physical I'll have flash backs and it smurfs with me really bad. I've never told HIM that because he doesn't really know much about that part of my past and I don't like to dwell on it but I wish I could just forget about it.

Quoting Miss. Tiff:" My dh has on many occasions messed with me while I was sleeping (i take a sleeping aid) like playing ... [snip!] ... embarrassed. I don't know the point in this really, I just had to put this down some where. & notto any one I know. <\3"

Leave, if he can't respect your wishes he is a smurfing smurf.

I have made it absolutely clear I will not tolerate it any more!. He's completely been different. He knows my past & in the sex department I've come along way. Bc I had anxiety etc from other things in my passed.