Quoting Shhh Mommy*:" Well I know if his dad gets over nights that he will probably make him CIO and that scares me to death. ... [snip!] ... my bed but he still ends up sleeping with me. I dont mind at all but sometimes Id like to have a full bed to myself lol."
It is scary
Letting a LO can cause serious damage emotionally & physically. I've done a ton of research on it, it's one of those things I feel very strongly about.
Anyway, if you feel comfortable with your situation now, stick to it! Don't let your doctor try to make you feel bad about it, you know what's best. Afterall, you're the mother!