<blockquote><b>Quoting ma ♥:</b>" TBH I think letting a little one CIO is just mean, abusive, actually. I still co-sleep with my son, he's ... [snip!] ... thinking of other options, try the crib, toddler bed, maybe even try putting either of them up against the side of your bed?"</blockquote>

I agree. Dd is 5 and is hit or miss if she sleeps in her bed the couch or my bed. I still check on her to make sure she's ok at night haha. Whe she sleeps with me I dont have to worry about it.