Am I ugly? Seriously am I f'n ugly?

lol.

I'm a single mom and the only guys interested in me are totallyyyyyyyyy not good. It would be settling to date them and I would have to severely lower my standards. Why is it that no good guys want me? How do I find a good guy? I mean looks aren't everything but you have to somewhat attracted to the person, and you have to like their personality and ethics and morals have to be similar, right? Well this is impossible for me!

From what I can tell in your Avi you're gorgeous mama! Don't get down. The right guy will come along. You should be picky  

Yes , you are ugly.

I'm totally kidding.
Just relax the right guy will come to you if you spend your time dwelling over it or thinking about it it'll just continue to make you wonder... Just forget about it some of the greatest relationships happen unexpectedly. You're not ugly focus on yourself someone will come along   Good luck! <3

From your pictures, I think you're cute!

I don't do anything to meet anyone, I'm so busy with working and school. The only guys that go out of their way to approach me are the weird ones.

Quoting ♥supermommy:" I don't do anything to meet anyone, I'm so busy with working and school. The only guys that go out of their way to approach me are the weird ones. "

Have you tried POF?

You have to weed out the weirdos, but there are some good guys on there.

I was a single mom for years. Had to kiss a lot of frogs before I found my prince. All these smurfs you're going through now, will just make you that much more confident in who you choose, and more appreciative!

when i stopped worrying about the perfect relationship my man now popped into my life. Before he came along i was just having fun with friends and working a smurfload and then somehow he saw me somewhere and tracked me down.
Your time will come and dont be silly you not ugly 

Quoting ♥supermommy:" I don't do anything to meet anyone, I'm so busy with working and school. The only guys that go out of their way to approach me are the weird ones. "

Ahh.. I see.. Well idk girl lol. I thought I had an attraction for nothing but ass holes and I have a husband now so who knows?

I had the same problem after my son was born...I think there are a lot of weirdos who see single moms as "vulnerable" or easy targets or whatever. I'm sure they think you must have low self-esteem so they have a better shot.

I just ignored them and focused on myself and my son...once I stopped trying to find someone, my now-DH just walked into my life. And he actually pursued me. I was shocked he was interested in being with a single mom (being young and childless himself), and he told me he respected how strong I was for doing everything on my own.

You are definitely not ugly.. The right guy will come along sooner or later.. Definitely don't lower your standards!! Just keep your head up and eyes out lol  

You are not ugly, you need look in mirror again. From you picture your very beautiful. Stop beating yourself down, and when the time is right the right guy will approach you.

Quoting JessieLeeAnne:" Have you tried POF? You have to weed out the weirdos, but there are some good guys on there. "

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and... join us here if you havne't already!! single moms dating thread!

http://forum.baby-gaga.com/about2367900.html

You are gorgeous!!! you will find someone TRUST me, just don't settle for less, I was in similar situation my son's dad was a heartless ass, and then I dated a total loser I realized but now it seems like god truly blessed me with an amazing man   he is a sweetheart