re: 1st counseling session tomorrow

<blockquote><b>Quoting Andi+Andy=Marley+1:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Proud mom & USMC wife:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... after me probably balling my eyes out becausen im so emotional! I hope I have an good therapist!!"</blockquote>"</blockquote>



I can't see what u wrote lol

<blockquote><b>Quoting Proud mom & USMC wife:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Andi+Andy=Marley+1:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... after we leave. Especially after me probably balling my eyes out becausen im so emotional! I hope I have an good therapist!!"</blockquote>


If you don't feel like that therapist is helping BOTH of you then find another one. They all have different techniques on how they deal with their patients and their way might not be the best way for you guys. Just go with it. It's going to be tough letting it all out but in the long run you will feel better for it.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Andi+Andy=Marley+1:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Proud mom & USMC wife:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... way for you guys. Just go with it. It's going to be tough letting it all out but in the long run you will feel better for it."</blockquote>


OK well let's hope it goes well!!  

<blockquote><b>Quoting Proud mom & USMC wife:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ♡Mommy to A♡:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... I wish there was a like button for this."</blockquote> Lol I hate that there's non like button on here!!"</blockquote>



I know.

And as for feeling awkward I just didn't feel it. I thought it would be but I'm not sure if the session just made it easier or not. The first session we just talked about how we felt about the counsellor himself and how we felt he could help us. We kinda just gave it a break that first night and then tried to talk openly more each night that week. And literally by the end of our sessions we didn't cry at the sessions and were able to openly communicate to each other.

Obviously things can't go back to perfect. They take time. You have to learn how to little by little trust him again. And forgive him, I went thru the same and I know I'm not there yet but it's better. We're happier. The counselling saved us and I hope it's the same for you.