Okay so my husband and I seperated for a while, while wewere seperated he got in to a really serious well he "broken up with her" and we got back togeather. Well I found outhe was still with her telling her that he loved her blah blah blah. Anyway, we broken it off and I left his again we nearly went through with a divorce when I found out I was prgnant. Any way to make a long story short we gotback togeather after the baby was born and he begged for his family back. Well sense theno everything has been fine better then ever tillet I saw a picture on facebook of the "girl" she has amatching tattoo to the one on his shoulder when I confronted him about it he told me he had been afraid to tell me because I would make him get it removed or covered and he really liked it. I politely asked him to pack his smurfe and get the smurf out of my house and don't come back untill I called him. He said I was over reacting. I am so not over reacting I mean he has some other bitches marked on him but refused to removed it or at least covered it. . . Sorry rant pissed wanting to smurfing kill him!

Quoting Akeema:" Okay so my husband and I seperated for a while, while wewere seperated he got in to a really serious ... [snip!] ... bitches marked on him but refused to removed it or at least covered it. . . Sorry rant pissed wanting to smurfing kill him!"

It's a goddamn tattoo... you'd have NEVER known if you hadn't seen the other picture. AND it happened when you two weren't together. You're overreacting.

That Would piss me off too but if he's being faithful there's nothing he can do about it now..

I think you were stupid to get back with him in the first place if you're going to hold past actions against him. Forgive and forget and move the smurf on.

It is a tattoo, get over it.

It was when you two weren't together. If you never saw her pic you would have never of known and all would be well. The tattoo bugs sure. But to kick someone out and divorce him over it..thats just immature.

Sorry about the typoes on my phone.

I am so not overreacting it is a tattoo permanently attached to his bodya slap in my smurfing face every time I see his back. Herrors marked her tattoo staring at me and he can get it removed or covered up. I'm not asking him to cut his arm off.

Quoting ★Bαtgirl:" It's a goddamn tattoo... you'd have NEVER known if you hadn't seen the other picture. AND it happened when you two weren't together. You're overreacting. "

this. I've heard it's painful to have a tat removed, takes a lot of money, etc. If you two weren't together I don't see where it's such a big deal. It's not like it's her name, something obvious like that.

I'd say your over reacting a bit. Dont get me wrong, I would be pissed, but not where I would want a divorce. He sounds like he made a stupid mistake while you wernt together. Happens to alot of people, even if it isnt in that exact same way. As long as it isnt her name, I dont see the problem. I would also make him get a tatoo for me though lol, but thats my childish side coming out.

Quoting Akeema:" Sorry about the typoes on my phone. I am so not overreacting it is a tattoo permanently attached to ... [snip!] ... back. Herrors marked her tattoo staring at me and he can get it removed or covered up. I'm not asking him to cut his arm off."

Do you know how smurfing painful tattoo removal is? And it's a bad scar. Pending what it is, covering it up can be costly and painful. You ARE overreacting, it happened when you were apart, and if you're going to hold smurf from when you two were separated against him, then maybe the relationship wasn't going to work anyhow.

If it wasn't a name, then there's no reason you'd have known until you found that facebook pic.  

I think you are overreacting. He got a tattoo when they were together. It is just a tattoo. It's not like he went out yesterday and got it with her behind your back. I don't think it is cause for divorce.

Quoting Akeema:" Sorry about the typoes on my phone. I am so not overreacting it is a tattoo permanently attached to ... [snip!] ... back. Herrors marked her tattoo staring at me and he can get it removed or covered up. I'm not asking him to cut his arm off."

Then why ask? He likes the tattoo and shouldn't have to cover it up for you. He got it when you weren't together, get over it.

Being his mother probably isn't helping the situation and sounds like you could use A LOT of marriage counseling.

you are way overreacting

Seems a little like over reacting. My husband has a matching tattoo with the girl he was with before me...I dont like it but not a whole lot we can do about it. It was a mistake he made in the moment and we werent together so I dont hold it against him. He loves me and not her so thats all that matters. If hes faithful to you then the tattoo doesnt matter.

You shouldn't have gotten back together in the first place if you're going to continually use smurf from the past against him.

Get over it or move on.