I have realized that I was over reacting a bit we sat down and talked about it. he told me that he didn't realize how bad him having it would hurt me. When we wede doberman talking he showed me his near tattoo. He had taken the old one and put our wedding symbol , the irish clade aka the hands woth the crown and the heart. The old obenew is still there but it is like superimposed over the top and he put my initials in the heart. I feel like a bitch now for blowing up it just hurt so bad. He said he understood that I had been hurt and was acting out, which made me feel like a heel. He says he loves me and never wants me to feel like I wasn't the one he loved more than anything and he hadn't thought that him having that tattoo would be doing just that making me feel like that.