re: your husband or your child/ren?

Quoting ★Bαtgirl:" I just don't see the appeal if someone's not a parent or thinking of becoming one in the near future, ... [snip!] ... bother me when I see someone who isn't one of the above on here, who has no kids and no intentions of having them and whatnot. "

I'm near 27 so either way it rolls there are not many outlets for me to find friends or people my age who don't have children really :-P.

Quoting MysticWitchKat:" I'm near 27 so either way it rolls there are not many outlets for me to find friends or people my age who don't have children really :-P."

Have you tried city-data.com?

Quoting Legendary Amanda:" Indecent, but yes. "

Yep she is really a terrible women.

Quoting Back to Noob Status:" In two years. Can't wait! "

 

Quoting MysticWitchKat:" I'm near 27 so either way it rolls there are not many outlets for me to find friends or people my age who don't have children really :-P."

Facebook? Websites about general interests? I mean, the internet is large and vast.

Quoting MysticWitchKat:" I'm near 27 so either way it rolls there are not many outlets for me to find friends or people my age who don't have children really :-P."

really? smurf come here, lots of people w/out kids.

Quoting Back to Noob Status:" Have you tried city-data.com?"

I have issues with julia there and her view on allowing certain people to post without banning them, but also punishing other people for calling them out. I'm there mostly on the politics forum from time to time as lucidkitty  . I just haven't really met anyone I could say I liked much there.

Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:" Tell me about it. The next day she changed her number, email, and never spoke to her mother again. ... [snip!] ... did for me was teach me everything to NOT be as a mother. You'll never speak to me again." And I don't blame her one bit."

wow. that breaks my heart....

Quoting MysticWitchKat:" I have issues with julia there and her view on allowing certain people to post without banning them, ... [snip!] ... on the politics forum from time to time as lucidkitty  . I just haven't really met anyone I could say I liked much there."

I will have to look you up!

I don't care much for Julia either. She is a hyper mod on that forum.

OP, who comes first to you? Your husband or your children?? I think people asked that multiple times, and never got an answer.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Angel [Mariah's Mommy]:</b>" I'm grown. My sister and I are still #1. Example: my dad was in the middle of hanging drywall on a side ... [snip!] ... in case something else went wrong. Why? Because even though I'm 24, moved out, and have a child of my own, we still come first."</blockquote>



Lucky. I know my parents priorities and their children are nowhere near top.

Its usually their new spouse. Then alcohol. Then stepchildren. Then us.

Ands thats why my children will always come first. I'm 21 and that smurf still hurts

<blockquote><b>Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:</b>" I have a friend who's mom remarried when the friend was 18. Her mom always put the husband first, always. ... [snip!] ... Oh, and before anyone says "She should have her own car at 20" it was in the shop being fixed, she only went 2 days car-less."</blockquote>




When I was assaulted by my BIL I wasnt allowed to g back to either parents house. I had to move 500 miles away pregnant with a toddler. And without SO

Quoting Ravey Candyass:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:</b>" I have a friend who's mom remarried ... [snip!] ... my BIL I wasnt allowed to g back to either parents house. I had to move 500 miles away pregnant with a toddler. And without SO"

~hugs~ sadly that is an all too common occurrence

<blockquote><b>Quoting ★Bαtgirl:</b>" OP, who comes first to you? Your husband or your children?? I think people asked that multiple times, and never got an answer. "</blockquote>

She doesn't need to answer that, we all know that answer already.

Quoting *~Stella's Momma~*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ★Bαtgirl:</b>" OP, who comes first to you? Your husband ... [snip!] ... times, and never got an answer. "</blockquote> She doesn't need to answer that, we all know that answer already."

Honestly, I think she says some stuff just to yank our chains.