re: your husband or your child/ren?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. Mommy to 6 ღ 35:</b>" it was her guilt that made her do for my children what she never did for me. you dont know my mother like i know her so dont paint her to be a saint."</blockquote>




She did a lot for you that some moms wouldn't. Taking in you and 5 kids, then after you up and leavr for some dude who knocked you up and happened to be rich then going BACK TO HER with another on the way? Supporting all of you, feeding, housing. You're an ungrateful little smurf, huh? You think any of that is owed to you?
She can't be all that bad.

Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia: you, feeding, housing. You're an ungrateful little smurf, huh? You think any of that is owed to you? She can't be all that bad."

she's not anymore.

she kicked me out when i was pregnant, and then again when my son was only a few weeks old and i had to live with my baby dad's mom for a little while.

op you are literally resentful towards your mother and let me tell you this by you doing what you are doing your are hurting yourself not your mother. Get that straight it seems you want to blame everything on her and make her feel bad for it. You digging your own grave if you know what that means. Stop acting like a brat and just because you have a smurffy mom doesnt mean you need to be that way. There is no excuse or anybody to blame except for yourself for bringing so many kids into this world.

Quoting Mrs. Mommy to 6 ღ 35:" who comes first in your life??"

I'll try to learn from my relatives' mistakes and go with my children.  

I know this thread is old but i wanted to put my two cents in  

My sons healthy and happiness with always come first but In minor things like droping what ever im doing to do his dirty laundry type thing then no....

My mother is an enabler. She has great intentions but enables my brother to do drugs, mooche or whatever it is that will make him happy at that moment. because of this it has ruined her marriage. if shes is having dinner wit my dad and my brother comes walking through the door and says wash my clothes...she does it.
I will always teach my son that he comes first but mommy and daddy need thier time too. But that doesnt mean if my son needs my help i will be there for him.