Quoting DeanJade&Maksims Momma:" <blockquote><b>Quoting KrissJohnson16:</b>" ok so I had a lawyer and he was fantastic ... [snip!] ... get child suport, but I don't think it will effect what u get... I would look into pre schools around u and start that process."
she's in an amazing daycare that's teaching her so much that it seems stupid to take her out and put her into a preschool. Plus she starts kindergarten next year. I know it'll take a little bit to fight through all this so I'd rather get the ball rolling now since with CA court systems if I remember correctly it takes 6 months from the filing date to get seen by a judge. We both agree on the school she will be going to for Kinder but he's trying to put her somewhere new so she's "not around babies" I don't think any other place will teach her as much as the place she's in now. she is in a daycare that is half way from both of us (the school is in the same area) however, if we continue to share custody (the way that we have it worked out right now), I don't know how he'll be able to even drop her off at school (when it does start) because he wants to be able to drop her off at daycare at 6am! schools don't start till what? 8? it just doesn't seem possible on his end. stressful for her in the end and I plan to still put her in the middle so he will still be involved. if he wants to visit her at school, check everything out and every so often when he's off early, pick her up and spend time with her I'm all for it. I want him in her life, I don't want to take her dad from her. I just want things to be easy on my little girl.