Quoting Faith Spann:" Well if we are talking about "jumping" someone for their thoughts then I think we should grow up a little ... [snip!] ... side, myself I wouldn't take the chance. To each their own and no reason to discuss attacking someone for what they believe."
Honey, you "attacked" her when you said she had issues cause she wasn't willing to give up drinking for 9 months, without knowing that that was the case. I didn't attack you, and that wasn't mean. I can, however, be mean, if that's what you would prefer.
All I'm saying is that she asked if something was okay. It's not your place to tell her that she has issues or problems or anything else.