Quoting Jodi&Brennen+1:" I would take my children with me if their father was just going to sit at home."
Quoting Nigel Thornberry:" Do you have an actual custody agreement? If not I would just tell him that if he can't make a choice and doesn't want to celebrate you'll assume you're taking her to see your family. "
Quoting The Doctor:" As much as I agree with this (and have wanted to do the same).... it doens't look good if you have a legal agreement, or want to get one."
Quoting Derpy Hooves:" That is the same instinct I have. I am aware I cannot micromanage how he spends each holiday with her, I also can't enjoy myself when my child is not having fun on a holiday."
Quoting The Doctor:" Trust me, I feel your pain... and I'm sorry I have no advice for you. It breaks my heart, holiday ... [snip!] ... And it's worse on holidays, or when his family members get to make her holiday memories (because BD won't) and I don't get to."
Quoting Derpy Hooves:" Man, I wish our exes would wise up and realize what they are missing out on by ignoring their babies."
Quoting Derpy Hooves:" We don't. We have just been trying to share and be easy on each other about it. But smurf like THIS situation is making me want to get one."
Quoting Nigel Thornberry:" I would definitely work on getting one. Is he adamant about having her? "Not sure. Every time I ask him, he just says to stop bothering him about something that's not immediate. It is getting so close, faster than he thinks.
Quoting Derpy Hooves:" Not sure. Every time I ask him, he just says to stop bothering him about something that's not immediate. It is getting so close, faster than he thinks."