Quoting Yellow Diamond:" I know I chucking my two cents worth in a bit late but this thread made me sad I have absolutely ... [snip!] ... careful your not the one missing out just because they donít lay all their hopes, dreams and goals out in the initial email. "
I have social anxiety and a paranoia disorder, plus I have other health issues, so doing the bar thing and meeting guys in public isn't really for me. I also have self-esteem issues and body dysmorphia. For these reasons and the fact that I am a mother, I'm very selective about the guys I talk to. Like I told other people, I never said I didn't talk to these guys, or that I didn't check them out. Most of them we had absolutely nothing in common besides children. I'm sorry, but that's not enough for me.