the people that said never, you are crazy IMO! but anyways, probably around once every 2 weeks or so. me and my vibrator  

Quoting JiLLiAN.:" i only use my bullet, and it makes me squirt.   "

bullet, that's what i use! oh and my batteries died this morning   how uncool

Quoting MysticWitchKat:" Then tell him you don't want it as much."

trust me.... i have. lol

Quoting T-Swizzle+2:" trust me.... i have. lol"

Then just don't have sex as much is all *shrugs*

Quoting Lovin' My Family!!!:" bullet, that's what i use! oh and my batteries died this morning   how uncool"

I think most people have. Just some people prefer a partner to smurf, then to play with themselves is all.

Quoting Lovin' My Family!!!:" bullet, that's what i use! oh and my batteries died this morning   how uncool"

Probably need to invest in duracell :-P

Quoting MysticWitchKat:" Rub you clit basically, not much more to it  . Up and down or all around :X."

eh,that's never worked for me... neither does shower head.

vibe... : )

used to be daily.... now once a week to a couple times a week.

Quoting snglemama:" eh,that's never worked for me... neither does shower head. vibe... : ) used to be daily.... now once a week to a couple times a week."

Some people need a vibe. I find more pressure on the clit also seems to help a lot of women. I have to press harder on mine to get it to feel good.

Daily.

Quoting .:Stacy Renee:.:" Daily. "

That was me a year or so back as well.

Quoting MysticWitchKat:" Some people need a vibe. I find more pressure on the clit also seems to help a lot of women. I have to press harder on mine to get it to feel good."

here's a question. can you orgasm without clitoral simulation? my dh seems to think i am weird because i can't get off unless i am touched there.

Quoting Lovin' My Family!!!:" here's a question. can you orgasm without clitoral simulation? my dh seems to think i am weird because i can't get off unless i am touched there."

Yeah I can but I have always been lucky there. Most women can't because the positions most people do seem to favor men. So no you aren't weird  . Have you tried modifying things so his thrusts stimulate your clit more? A pillow under the butt helps, or him angling higher so he comes down at an angle rather then going straight. His tummy will smack on your clit which each push, thus making it easier for you to cum.

Quoting MysticWitchKat:" Yeah I can but I have always been lucky there. Most women can't because the positions most people do ... [snip!] ... an angle rather then going straight. His tummy will smack on your clit which each push, thus making it easier for you to cum."

hmm will have to try that. any type of similation gets me going...i mean i can orgasm on top for sure, cuz i can angle myself to rub on him. also he did learn to do the g spot orgasm for me now, but he is good at oral. haha.

Quoting Lovin' My Family!!!:" hmm will have to try that. any type of similation gets me going...i mean i can orgasm on top for sure, ... [snip!] ... sure, cuz i can angle myself to rub on him. also he did learn to do the g spot orgasm for me now, but he is good at oral. haha."

  Yep on top works best for most of us. Basically just playing around to see what gets you over the top is all you need. Legs on shoulders works good,spooning sex,the dragon which is rear entry with you laying on the bed works great as well.

Probably about every day on average i'd say.