How would you respond? How would this make u feel?

Yesterday I told my best friend about the issues I've been having with SO and that I had told him to leave etc...well she got pissed and wrote on SOs best friend wall on FB. It said all I want for Christmas is for you to come get your friend and take his ass back to Cali. Which...I don't agree with putting smurf on FB. So SO yells at me about talking about my business with people. A hr or so later, I get this message from an ex gf of his :/.
Let me begin by saying U know who I am...I wish u would stop playin games with Sammy he's a great man and I truly think one day he will realize who you really are and leave...you know u have a hold on him with that little boy Xavier is his world and that's why you feel you can control everything.it's ok if Sammy unfriended me I will still be here.the only reason I kept my mouth shut before was for Sammy. He is my friend and I care about his well being. If u truly loved him u wouldn't have him so far from his family...ur smurfn selfish and should be ashamed of urself....one dy we will meet and it won't be nice...I don't like u and never will. Maybe one day you will grow up ad be a woman and stop playing little smurfn kid games..and if you think im mad wait until his family sees your true colors if you only knew what people say about you. Please take the time to write me back..be a woman not a little girl.



Mind you he dated her over 10 yrs ago. She clearly has no idea what kind of man he is. This man has physically and mentally abused me off and on for 4 yrs now...the kids are scared of him when he's mad. I know I shouldn't care what people think but I can't help being upset that some of his family and friends hate me so much because of half stories and smurf he has told them. I have been a good woman and mother  

She is retarded!!! You should get away from him for sure. But she can go sm*rf herself. Obviously she hasn't kept up with what's going on with him... She doesn't even deserve a response!

WOW i would be angry! who the hell is she to tell you anything? and how does she know about this whole situation?

Seriously just ignore her. She's being childish. I don't even get how she thinks you responding would make you a "woman". She just wants to pick a fight so she can feel good. Like she's winning or something. If he abuses you, or your children, let him go. Don't listen to what anyone else says, they're not YOU.

<blockquote><b>Quoting *Momlette*:</b>" Yesterday I told my best friend about the issues I've been having with SO and that I had told him to ... [snip!] ... family and friends hate me so much because of half stories and smurf he has told them. I have been a good woman and mother  "</blockquote>




Abusers always have that one person who thinks they are perfect. Ignore her

I am so sorry momma they are WRONG.

YOU deserve better then him. He has done nothing but treat you like trash and spend all your money. If they want him fine, have them come pick him up and take him "home".

Ugh this pisses me off.  

*hugs*

Tell that b to F off. Way to much drama people need to stay out of other people's business don't even give her the satisfaction of giving her a response

Quoting *Momlette*:" Yesterday I told my best friend about the issues I've been having with SO and that I had told him to ... [snip!] ... family and friends hate me so much because of half stories and smurf he has told them. I have been a good woman and mother  "

Id say "great if hes that amazing you take him.... Tell me how you feel when you see what Im going though" But then I also have a habit of saying things that dont help so Im usually a better example of what not to say....

I wouldnt respond and just block her. And as for your SO if hes abusive and hes refused to leave. I woukd ask one more time and call the cops to have him escorted out and have your locks changed.

Ignore her. Abusers are usually really good manipulators and he is obviously using other people to try and manipulate you into taking him back. My ex was the same way, he was an abusive controlling dick and everytime I tried to end it he would have his mom, sister, friends, you name it calling me telling me how upset he was and how he but wants us to work and he loves me. They would NEVER believe he was the way he was because they all he was perfect I was the bad guy.
He's a piece of crap and doesn't deserve you or your children. Ignore the people who have no idea what he's really like to you, they will never believe you and it will only get worse if you try to make them understand. Just take care of yourself and your family.

I actually did respond. I was very mature about it. I basically just said please don't judge me when you don't know me. There's always more then one side to a story. I understand that you're just being a friend to him and going by whatever you've been told. So she wrote me back and said well tell me your side. Talk me me. Allow me to Be both of your friends....

Riiiiiiight lmfao

Quoting *Momlette*:" I actually did respond. I was very mature about it. I basically just said please don't judge me when ... [snip!] ... So she wrote me back and said well tell me your side. Talk me me. Allow me to Be both of your friends.... Riiiiiiight lmfao"

Interesting. Did you respond to that at all? It would be hard for me not to take that opportunity to say something, but then again I am not very mature sometimes.  

<blockquote><b>Quoting *Momlette*:</b>" I actually did respond. I was very mature about it. I basically just said please don't judge me when ... [snip!] ... So she wrote me back and said well tell me your side. Talk me me. Allow me to Be both of your friends.... Riiiiiiight lmfao"</blockquote>




Really?  

She is ridiculous and just being a nosy bitch.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Crystal Marie S.:</b>" Seriously just ignore her. She's being childish. I don't even get how she thinks you responding would ... [snip!] ... winning or something. If he abuses you, or your children, let him go. Don't listen to what anyone else says, they're not YOU."</blockquote>




This!!!

Clearly she's not even over him either!

Quoting *Momlette*:" I actually did respond. I was very mature about it. I basically just said please don't judge me when ... [snip!] ... So she wrote me back and said well tell me your side. Talk me me. Allow me to Be both of your friends.... Riiiiiiight lmfao"

tell that idiot u dont wanna be her friend! ur life is none of her business!!