re: How would you respond? How would this make u feel?

oh man. id want to punch that girl. lol

your SO doesnt even give a smurf about his kids enough to work. or stop drinking or anything..

i think you need to just do it.. kick his ass out, call the cops on him dosomething

I would have said "Thanks for standing up for him, but you should know, I'm not holding him back. I've told him to leave and he doesn't. Maybe you should message him with your advice."

I have a friend from highschool. He was cheating on his wife for 7 yrs by sleeping with hookers - to the point the costs of it put him into bankruptcy. He doesn't know that I know the details and have seen the proof of it (idiot used his company credit card to pay for all the hotels etc). I've seen it all.

He just messaged me asking me to provide a statement that he's "not the sexual deviant that his ex is claiming him to be". Had I not seen the proof of the things he's done, I would NEVER have believed him capable of it. People can be really good at having double lives.....

What a little bitch of her. I'd respond telling her to mind her own business, she dated him 10 years ago, you're daten him now, she doesn't know what goes on in your household, only you and him do. She needs to get over herself and I'm sure she's just stirring up smurf saying that his family and friends dislike you, just to piss you off and to cause more problems between you and SO.

Quoting *Momlette*:" Yesterday I told my best friend about the issues I've been having with SO and that I had told him to ... [snip!] ... family and friends hate me so much because of half stories and smurf he has told them. I have been a good woman and mother  "

gotta admit, I LOL'd at "the only reason I kept my mouth shut before was for Sammy" because, this being the same girl you have told be about before, she has done anything and everything BUT kept her mouth shut.
so, this begs the question, why is he still there? go get your dad, call the police and ask for a civil stand by, kick his ass to the curb.

Quoting *Momlette*:" Yesterday I told my best friend about the issues I've been having with SO and that I had told him to ... [snip!] ... family and friends hate me so much because of half stories and smurf he has told them. I have been a good woman and mother  "

Here's what you do: don't respond, block her, delete everyone causing drama, and set your FB to only accept messages from people you're friends with. To respond would only be stooping to her level.

I'd simply reply with:
Women don't get involved in other people's business, that's for little girls.
Go get a life and a boyfriend of your own, not an ex from a decade ago  

Also, my husband did this during my pregnancy and after the birth of our son. I had some stupid bitch work colleague who had know him for 7 months tell me I was a psycho stalker   erm I stalked my husband after work on 3 occasions when he missed the bus and begged me to pick him up? Yeah. She was telling me she felt sorry for my son having a mother like me and I lost my smurf. She didn't think it was so funny when I told her that he had called her the office bike who loves being a local penis taster when her boyfriend was deployed. Safe to say, I never heard from that stupid turd again and my husband was kicked out with his broken belongings.
We had counseling and he promised to change but we're OK now. He said it was because he never had a family that he didn't know what he was doing (even though our son was planned).