Quoting *Momlette*:" Yesterday I told my best friend about the issues I've been having with SO and that I had told him to ... [snip!] ... family and friends hate me so much because of half stories and smurf he has told them. I have been a good woman and mother "
gotta admit, I LOL'd at "the only reason I kept my mouth shut before was for Sammy" because, this being the same girl you have told be about before, she has done anything and everything BUT kept her mouth shut.
so, this begs the question, why is he still there? go get your dad, call the police and ask for a civil stand by, kick his ass to the curb.