re: LOVE

Thank you for PTing me !! I never really talked about this before..scared of what ppl will say or think...and what could possibly get back to my DH.

I have a good relationship with my DH and we have fun, but I feel no matter what we do it just isn't the same

Quoting Lovin' My Family!!!:" oh i am happy. and usually when i am to the point of not thinking about my ex...i see him again! not ... [snip!] ... mom like everyday, we worked together and all that jazz. but either way i am happy. i just miss that true love and the sparks."

omg that would suck having to work with his mom. Thankfully I have only seen him a few times...I mean I couldn't image if I saw him a lot that would be really awkward

Quoting Cade*Lily*Mom:" omg that would suck having to work with his mom. Thankfully I have only seen him a few times...I mean I couldn't image if I saw him a lot that would be really awkward"

we don't work together anymore, but now she works at walmart, where we go all the time, she is nice no problem there. but when i see him that's when it's bad, luckily we don't see each other much. but yeah pt me back! i would love to keep in touch, since i made a post like this once and ppl were like you are wrong u should love your husband. and i said i do love my husband very very much, i would take a bullet for him. but it's not the same love that i had for my ex....that sparky true love love. but now since you know how i feel i don't feel alone in this.

Quoting Cade*Lily*Mom:" Thank you for PTing me !! I never really talked about this before..scared of what ppl will say or think...and ... [snip!] ... back to my DH. I have a good relationship with my DH and we have fun, but I feel no matter what we do it just isn't the same"

does ur DH know about how you feel towards your ex? ever run into him with your husband? i have to say that was the most awkward time ever...running into him with his family and my family.   everyone could sense the tension.

No he doesn't know and I could not image how that went.....I mean I bet you couldn't take your eyes off your ex and same for him...I am sure you could have cut the tension with a knife.
My DH would know if it ever happen b/c I don't think I would be able to hide it anymore.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Cade*Lily*Mom:</b>" No he doesn't know and I could not image how that went.....I mean I bet you couldn't take your eyes off ... [snip!] ... have cut the tension with a knife. My DH would know if it ever happen b/c I don't think I would be able to hide it anymore."</blockquote>



He never knew until this happened. I coild tell his wife felt weird too. Oh i dont think we stopped looking at each other...i cant imagine how my dh felt. He said it was awkward and later asked me if i stilled loved him so obvioudly something made him feel as if we do. I wish i had it videotaped. First time i ever saw his wife

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<blockquote><b>Quoting Cade*Lily*Mom:</b>" No he doesn't know and I could not image how that went.....I mean I bet you couldn't take your eyes off ... [snip!] ... have cut the tension with a knife. My DH would know if it ever happen b/c I don't think I would be able to hide it anymore."</blockquote>



Omg sorry for the posts im on phone now. I will postnpics so u can see how diff they look

here you go...here's my ex with his wife and kiddo
TOOK PICS OUT...

here's my hubster (one in the middle)

totally different right? i think i just didn't want anything to do with anyone that looked like my ex at that time.

Sorry I had to get off here for a bit...put Lily down for a nap and get what can done around my house...I did see the pics and man we are so much alike and our situations. My ex was from hawaii and played football...(tall and really built) everyone called him Moose. I wish I had some of our pictures together. A friend told me to tear them up that it would help get over him...now I wish I still had them. I had a whole shoe box of stuff from when we were together. If I still had it maybe I could DH about him and he would understand. My husband is fit but not like that lol. I too wanted someone that was totally different too

That picture of him and his family has to be hard to look at it was for me when I saw his on FB. At the same time I was glad that he has a good family

Quoting Cade*Lily*Mom:" Sorry I had to get off here for a bit...put Lily down for a nap and get what can done around my house...I ... [snip!] ... was for me when I saw his on FB. At the same time I was glad that he has a good family life. Here is a picture of DH and I "

u 2 are cute! yeah my ex is very muscular and still looks exactly the same as when we dated (prob makes it worse). my husband gained some weight, he still looks good, but he is def. not my "type" persay. my type is my ex, always will be. oh well. at least i know i have someone like me now! and yes those pictures of him and his family now tear me apart...but i am glad he isn't alone and miserable. they are happy. i am happy. that's what matters. even though it's not the happy we all want...it is what it is. i have him on fb so he sees my pics and i see his. he is hardly on..but yeah.

i used to get all mad and ask ppl when they started dating if i was cuter than her and when they had the baby if it was a pretty baby or not...but now i am just like whatever...it is what it is. oh and i have all our prom pictures, because he is who i was with all through school and some of college...they are all at my mom's house. and i have pics from the beach with him, i refuse to through those things out. they are sentimental to me. here is us (husband def looks diff now, he has gained some weight):

i feel like my ex picked someone WAY diff from me too. red hair, tall, etc. i am blonde, shorter. and he has always told me his type was like me...so yeah :/

Quoting Lovin' My Family!!!:" u 2 are cute! yeah my ex is very muscular and still looks exactly the same as when we dated (prob makes ... [snip!] ... not the happy we all want...it is what it is. i have him on fb so he sees my pics and i see his. he is hardly on..but yeah."

I understand exactly how you feel about it all. I am glad that I am not the only one who feels this way and at least we can stay in touch through PT if you have a bad day with it I'm here.. I guess you can be thankful that at least he is not cut totally out of your life. My ex is...He lives in Texas now and closed his FB about a yr ago... and I haven't seen or talked to him in about a year now.