breastfeeding + libido fail

ladies! please help
the thought of sex with my husband grosses me out. he is not gross, he is kind of a babe in fact. I am still breastfeeding, not exclusively or anything, but i figured after 17 months, hormone wise, everything should have worked itself out.
i just feel so embarrassed, and my husband is understanding, but sometimes he makes jokes and i feel sooooooo guilty and awful.
I tried to get in the mood last night, but whenever he touched me, it tickled too much or it just didn't feel good.
Any advice? much love in advance <3

Watch some good old porn first?

Quoting 1st1ontheway:" Watch some good old porn first?"

hahah! i will try this. ;-)

Get some drinks in ya...

<blockquote><b>Quoting iisabell:</b>" Get some drinks in ya..."</blockquote>




Lol drinks and porn, perfect  

Quoting 1st1ontheway:" <blockquote><b>Quoting iisabell:</b>" Get some drinks in ya..."</blockquote> Lol drinks and porn, perfect  "

hahahaha why didn't i think of this...

Quoting sealionsarah:" hahahaha why didn't i think of this..."

Sometimes just sucking it up and getting into it will help. The fact is once you get into a rut often it becomes tough to get out of it. But once you get back on that pony *in more ways than one ;)* you will notice your desire begin to come back.

Treat yourself to some sexy lingerie, you will feel good and so will hubby. Just surprise yourself, and him.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Sarah2705:</b>" Treat yourself to some sexy lingerie, you will feel good and so will hubby. Just surprise yourself, and him. That's what I'd doing I had the energy
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Quoting Sarah2705:" Treat yourself to some sexy lingerie, you will feel good and so will hubby. Just surprise yourself, and him."

this is a really good idea! I have actually never worn lingerie before, so it would be quite the surprise ;-)

Quoting MysticWitchKat:" Sometimes just sucking it up and getting into it will help. The fact is once you get into a rut often ... [snip!] ... to get out of it. But once you get back on that pony *in more ways than one ;)* you will notice your desire begin to come back."

yeah, you are right. "use it or lose it" totally applies here. thanks! I will try tonight, hehe ;-)

Quoting sealionsarah:" this is a really good idea! I have actually never worn lingerie before, so it would be quite the surprise ;-)"

Greet him in it when he comes home sometime and it will work wonders  

<blockquote><b>Quoting MysticWitchKat:</b>" Greet him in it when he comes home sometime and it will work wonders  "</blockquote>




Seriously do it Sarah. You deserve to show off that body of yours. Have a good glass of red if you need a little courage ;)

Quoting Sarah2705:" <blockquote><b>Quoting MysticWitchKat:</b>" Greet him in it when he comes home sometime ... [snip!] ... Seriously do it Sarah. You deserve to show off that body of yours. Have a good glass of red if you need a little courage ;)"

Alcohol the confindece booster since the times of the pharaohs.